Trump-loving gays say their MAGA support is ruining their lives

2 years ago by jeffw to c/news

“I was at the beach the other day and I was booed off the beach, a guy started kicking sand on me.”
krelvar 283 points 2 years ago

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iiGxC -127 points 2 years ago

How is this an example of leopards eating faces?

In this case the backlash is from the gay community to a (stupid) member of the gay community, so saying it's a leopards-eating-faces party (lefp) member getting their face eaten would mean the gay community is the lefp right? I don't think that's what the lefp meme is about

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catsarebadpeople 146 points 2 years ago

This person supports policies that hurt themselves and their peers. Now their peers are angry with them for supporting things that hurt them. They are being hurt by the result of what they support.

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iiGxC -13 points 2 years ago

Yeah, but in this case it's not the leopards eating their face (yet). They've voted for the leopards, people are angry at them for it, but so far the leopards have only eaten other peoples faces

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iiGxC -17 points 2 years ago

Eh, then you could say voting progressive and getting attacked by your conservative community would count as leopards eating face, since you're getting hurt by the result of what you support.

The meme is about voting for the harm and being directly harmed by the policy voted for, like if someone voted to ban abortions and then couldn't get one when they needed it. Voting to ban abortions and then getting backlash from your friends is not leopards eating face (yet) either

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Feathercrown -54 points 2 years ago

That's not leopards eating faces though. That's a guy voting for the leopards-eating-faces party and getting his shit rocked by his fellow citizens for endangering them.

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theangryseal 17 points 2 years ago

A little bit of column A, a lotta bit of column B.

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Someonelol 42 points 2 years ago

This guy is voting not only to have his own face eaten, but everyone else's within his community. I wouldn't want to acquaint myself with someone like that either.

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iiGxC -7 points 2 years ago

I'm not saying the guy did a good thing. In this article he voted for the leopard party, but hasn't had his face eaten yet. He voted for the leopard party and everyone was fucking pissed at him for it

idk I thought the leopards eating faces party meme was mainly for examples of them both voting for leopards and getting their face eaten.

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Someonelol 10 points 2 years ago

It's a little more nuanced than that. The typical face eating leopards voter doesn't have enough critical thinking to figure out they'll get eaten eventually. Everyone else around him knows they're gourmet leopard food and it's only a matter of time before they'd get eaten. I wouldn't wait to hold my judgment on the guy until after the inevitable happens because of his dumb-ass decision.

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Feathercrown -48 points 2 years ago

You're right, but people aren't listening to what your point is. Come on lemmy, you're better than this

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SOMETHINGSWRONG 29 points 2 years ago

No you and that commenter are literally wrong lmfao what do you even mean.

The meme derives humor from the fact that someone who voted for leopards was surprised when leopards hurt them.

The gays in the article supported bigots and was surprised when the bigots started to hurt them.

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Feathercrown -16 points 2 years ago

The article's ambiguous, but I read it as the LGBT community (rightfully) showering them with sand, not bigots doing it to be dicks.

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androogee 21 points 2 years ago

It's the dumbest possible thing to argue about, and the Internet is 86% people finding dumb things to argue about

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theangryseal 4 points 2 years ago

I don’t take kindly to your tone! There are a thousand other ways you could have said this. Let’s fight about it!

Oh, yeah! Also, your mom is fat and you over feed your pets, I’m assuming.

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beetlejuice0001 0 points 2 years ago
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iiGxC -4 points 2 years ago

🤷😮‍💨

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iiGxC 272 points 2 years ago

“When Trump won, my husband was so upset he wanted me out of our apartment. The rage was unexplainable — I mean honest rage. I could not understand this emotion in him and why anyone would let a political vote destroy or nearly destroy a marriage,” he said.

if you vote for someone who'd like to make your marriage illegal, it's gonna strain the marriage duuude

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wreckedcarzz 72 points 2 years ago

"but I just don't understand that" -that dumbass

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Blackmist 66 points 2 years ago

Reminds me of my sister-in-law's husband, who fell heavily into Brexit propaganda. Ranting about foreigners coming over, to his wife's face. She was from Iceland.

They're divorced now, oddly enough.

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NatakuNox 25 points 2 years ago

It's just the none white foreigners he was mad about, dude should have clarified his position...

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TheRealKuni 13 points 2 years ago

It's just the none white foreigners he was mad about, dude should have clarified his position...

I dunno, Brexiters seemed to have a lot of trouble with the Polish.

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Blackmist 7 points 2 years ago

Don't forget them "Romanian" Gypsies!

It's a crying shame really, because if they'd sat down and spoke to a Romanian, they'd find that hatred of gypsies is one of the few things they've got in common.

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catloaf 6 points 2 years ago

"White" has a very flexible definition depending on the racism du jour. In the US, plenty of Europeans, like Irish, Spanish, and Italian people weren't considered "white" for a long time.

But now we've got plenty of brown and black people to be even more racist against, so they get to be "white" these days.

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eldavi 1 point 2 years ago

I dunno, Brexiters seemed to have a lot of trouble with the Polish.

there have been many examples and treatises of how the whiteness was/is non-uniform in the united states; is the same true in england?

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lolcatnip 3 points 2 years ago

Option 1: Use coded language that directly attacks your spouse.
Option 2: Openly admit to being a hardcore racist.

Sucks to suck.

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ImADifferentBird 30 points 2 years ago

I've had a lot of people pull the "It's just politics, why are you so mad?" card, especially after Trump won. Just shows this is all a game to them, that they do not give a shit about the consequences of their actions.

Most of the ones who did it to me were straight white people though, so they were insulated by their privilege. It takes a whole other level of delusion to play that game when you're one of the minorities these assholes target.

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eldavi 2 points 2 years ago

Most of the ones who did it to me were straight white people though, so they were insulated by their privilege. It takes a whole other level of delusion to play that game when you’re one of the minorities these assholes target.

insulated by their privilege is the right phrase; i was fucked over multiple times by biden et al's banning of gays from marriage & federal service and student loans, but if you mention it now you get labeled as a tankie or russian/chinese shill; only the younger gays and the people who biden et al. hasn't fucked over get to enjoy this privilege while people in my situation have to forget or white knuckle it.

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ImADifferentBird 2 points 2 years ago

Agreed. A lot of those views seem to have genuinely softened as he aged (after all, he actively championed gay marriage during the Obama admin), but still, there is a lot of unsavory shit from his time as a senator, and it does take a lot of effort to reconcile that.

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eldavi 3 points 2 years ago

A lot of those views seem to have genuinely softened as he aged (after all, he actively championed gay marriage during the Obama admin)

he also actively campaigned on appeasing segregationists in his much more recent campaign until kamala had to embarrass him publicly in a debate; so no, those views haven't softened as evidenced by both biden's decades long track record and a painful recent schooling by kamala; among other examples from the recent past.

also, "unsavory" is putting it extremely mildly when people were put in prison; homes permanently broken; and livelihoods were destroyed by biden et al's actions.

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todd_bonzalez 18 points 2 years ago
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captainlezbian 7 points 2 years ago

Also politics displays values. I don’t want to date a republican for myriad reasons like valuing low taxes over strong social services or opposing environmental regulation. Caring for those struggling and for the environment are firm moral positions of mine and I would be angry to find my wife disagrees with those.

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lolcatnip 6 points 2 years ago

It takes two people to let a vote ruin a marriage. If you know your spouse has strong feelings about politics but it's just a game to you, then just maybe you shouldn't play the game in a way that will make your spouse hate you.

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Treczoks 139 points 2 years ago

I mean, you've got to be stupid to be a MAGA head. But being gay and a MAGA head you need to be terminally dumb. Amazing that such people can breathe without intellectual assistance.

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MumboJumbo 39 points 2 years ago

Dumb or horribly self-loathing. Unfortunately, there are plenty parts of America that help instill that feeling.

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NatakuNox 23 points 2 years ago

Yup, every Republican woman is deeply into self loathing. I can't tell you how many Republican woman I've heard say women can't be leaders or it takes a man to do what's right.

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Freefall 7 points 2 years ago

Just look at all the rightwingers that head anti-pedo movements that get busted for having CP or being actual groomers. (The list is LONG)

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NatakuNox 6 points 2 years ago

That's just another tactic of projection. Republican woman are just mad that they aren't men and need to justify their own subjugation by ensuring they get second place in the social hierarchy instead of questioning why there's a hierarchy in the first place. Thinking for yourself is difficult, so being told what to do is easy. Even if that means being told to hate yourself. Hell Christianity's first chronological story boils down to "women are the reason life sucks."

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Red_October 15 points 2 years ago

They just think he'll surely only go after Other people, that they'll be safe, part of the "In" group.

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figjam 7 points 2 years ago

Upper middle class white folks

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jjjalljs 115 points 2 years ago

“When Trump won, my husband was so upset he wanted me out of our apartment. The rage was unexplainable — I mean honest rage. I could not understand this emotion in him and why anyone would let a political vote destroy or nearly destroy a marriage,” he said.

Could not understand why anyone would let a political vote destroy a marriage. A political vote for a party that wants to destroy that marriage might do it.

Also reminds me of the "the missing missing reasons" thing. Where one person is like "it's unexplainable. i have no idea why they're so upset" but when you probe a little, you learn that they did explain.

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Snowclone 85 points 2 years ago

"I don't understand the emotion"

Exactly like my dad on this. It's really simple, he likes Trump's crudeness, cruelty, insulting, and offensive behavior, and getting a rise of people for supporting him or repeating his most blatantly vile statements. It's juvenile fun to play around with.

He knows he's eating shit to make other people smell his breath. Everything past that is a justification slapped together. Ultimately nothing matters to them past the sport politics sophmoric bullshit.

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Feathercrown 55 points 2 years ago

does something specifically because it hurts other people

"why don't they like me?"

Why are people like this

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KevonLooney 37 points 2 years ago

He believes that hierarchy is the correct way of the world. So he thinks it's his right and duty to keep people "in their place". That's why (in his mind) giving shit to people below him is ok.

Notice how these people never give shit to people "above them", even though trump and others treat them like shit. He accepts shit from people above him and doesn't understand why people below him don't accept it from him.

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Feathercrown 4 points 2 years ago

That's actually a pretty interesting lens to use for analyzing these people's behavior

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catloaf 4 points 2 years ago

In D&D, this is termed "lawful evil".

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Etterra 21 points 2 years ago

I wonder how many of our current problem boomers are a direct result of leaded gasoline.

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peopleproblems 10 points 2 years ago

Probably quite a bit. When a reduction in leaded gasoline directly correlated with a fall in violent crime, it was confirmation. We know how long lead lasts in the body, and all that lead in the atmosphere didn't just disappear. We know there is no safe amount of lead exposure.

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EleventhHour 21 points 2 years ago

This is an explanation of being a bully

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Snowclone 5 points 2 years ago

Yeah pretty much. Trump isn't even the worst person I've seen a lot of GOP friends and family get enthralled with, he's up there with Rush Limbauh, Micheal Savage, Dr Laura, Anne Culter, these people have been openly white supremacist and racist fascists since the 90s or later. And they all come up with taking points that are often cruel, petty, childish insults. Conservatives eat it up. It's all great fun for them.

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Klear 1 point 2 years ago

Very interesting and very sad read.

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GiddyGap 106 points 2 years ago

How anyone can be a member of the LGBTQ community and vote Republican is beyond me. Makes no sense.

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Cataath 65 points 2 years ago

Imagine either hating paying taxes or hating brown people so much you'd vote for people who want to see you hanged.

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ChickenLadyLovesLife 6 points 2 years ago

I work with two lesbians who are Trumpers. No surprises, they hate all non-White people with a passion. The only thing that surprised me is that they're so racist they hate Chinese food.

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pythonoob 21 points 2 years ago

I met one the other day. I was dumb founded until he told me he was a business owner in Colorado.

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GiddyGap 49 points 2 years ago

Republican policies being better for business is among the biggest lies Republicans have successfully told the public.

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prole 28 points 2 years ago

It's better for billionaire corporations, not small business owners.

But if it weren't or those damn blacks and taxes, their small town company would totally be an international corporation!

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pythonoob 2 points 2 years ago

Idk much about that. He just suddenly clicked into a schema I had in my brain.

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Asafum 16 points 2 years ago

Propaganda, full stop.

My cousin is one of these. The reporting on Palestine and Democrat support pushed him even more to the right because of Israel...

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Thetimefarm 4 points 2 years ago

I think some people have a flawed belief that one side is always correct. The Dem party is clearly handling isreal badly so to them the Republicans must be the good side.

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Klear 4 points 2 years ago

See also tankies - American government did tons of shady shit so obviously Stalin must have been a saint.

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ChickenLadyLovesLife 2 points 2 years ago

My cousins are big Trumpers and their biggest reason for supporting him is his anti-immigrant stance. The kicker is that they're half-Thai with a mother who immigrated from Thailand. They happen to look Mexican and were bullied for that growing up, but that experience didn't exactly teach them empathy or anything.

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Aceticon 13 points 2 years ago

It's perfectly possible having been born with characteristics that make one a "member" of a minority and still be a prejudiced asshole who discriminates against "others". In fact the prejudiced take is to expect that's any less likely for people from a specific minority to be prejudiced than other people.

That said, Trump and his ilk are targeting with their hate LGBT+, though mainly Transexuals and LGBT+ isn't really A community but several.

Considering that at least some year ago there were plenty of stories of Bisexual men being discriminated against by other LGBT+ people, it's not overly surprising the notion that some people who are Gay would thing that attacks on Transexuality are nothing to do with them personally and might even agree with it.

Unlike the reductio ad absurdum fantasy of liberal Identity Politics, people do come in all kinds no mater what group you tag them as being members of.

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Regrettable_incident 11 points 2 years ago

Yeah, having experienced discrimination doesn't make someone immune from discriminating themselves. There are dumbfuck bigoted arseholes all across the spectrum of humanity.

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GroundedGator 8 points 2 years ago

Punching down. It's often why bullies are bullies, they are someone's victim and the lesson they learn is to find someone weaker to make a victim.

If you tell someone they are less than and they believe it, they will start looking for someone less than themselves to treat the same way.

It's inferiority from the top down. Trump talks in terms of being the best, the greatest, etc to mask his true feelings. He feels he is less than. Maybe not consciously, but it's absolutely something that weighs on him.

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kent_eh 5 points 2 years ago

having experienced discrimination doesn't make someone immune from discriminating themselves.

It just makes them someone who lacks introspection, empathy, and the ability to recognize face eating leopards.

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AA5B 2 points 2 years ago

Not the same. Of course there are dumbfuck bigoted assholes who fit somewhere in the queer spectrum. It’s the dumbfuck bigoted assholes that appear to be marginalizing themselves, supporting bigotry against themselves and everyone like them, that seems like the bigger inconsistency here.

For example bisexual men being discriminated against by people who are NOT bisexual is at least logically consistent

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Aceticon 1 point 2 years ago

Gay people discriminating against Transexuals is also logically consistent (not Moral, but certainly logical for somebody whose thinking is "As long a I am alright").

For me a logical explanation for some people who are Gay aligning themselves with Trump and their crowd is them thinking that the prejudices of those people are against Transexuals, not Gays, and as they do not see themselves as being the same and they're not actually pro-Equality out of Principle but simply out of "what's in it for me", they're ok with discrimination against Transexuals.

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AA5B 1 point 2 years ago

That’s some serious tightrope walking

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Lemminary 89 points 2 years ago

Oh, weird, because their MAGA support is ruining other people's lives as well but it doesn't seem to cross their mind.

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whostosay 84 points 2 years ago

That guy seems like you could explain irony to him 20 times in a row and he'd never get it.

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Khrux 70 points 2 years ago

I was at the end of school during the 2016 election and my closest friend in my Comp-Sci class who I'd known from 11 was in the far right pipeline; this person found Hillary absolute abhorrent, loved trump and was generally the 2016 Pepe style crypto-facist. We live in the UK too, so this is even less common than it probably was in the USA.

When school ended, I stopped speaking to this person, but a few years ago saw that she's come out as a trans woman. I'm happy for her and not really keen to reconnect at all, but oh boy am I nosy about the timeline of her political views. I wonder if she still holds them, was struggling with internalised issues or just had a huge realisation at some point.

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Charzard4261 48 points 2 years ago

I'm in an identical situation as you (also from the UK funnily enough), except I did keep in contact with her, albeit at arm's length at first. She's explained to me over the years that it was internalised hatred, made worse by her family's very outspoken views about anyone not straight and white.

When she finally had a chance to get away and start thinking things through herself, she began to accept herself and others. She's a lovely person to be around now, and pretty vocal in trying to help other people learn about and understand trans healthcare and mental support. But most importantly, she's happy.

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Khrux 15 points 2 years ago

I'd hope we were talking about the same person and it's a small world but I think people who are targeted by extreme right views is sadly just probably common.

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wowsa 11 points 2 years ago

That was really wholesome to read!

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buttfarts 28 points 2 years ago

Liberal tolerance is such a defacto default that people who would be hard done by a white christofascist America end up signing up for it because they assume it will include the same rights and freedoms they currently enjoy.

Also every trans Trumper believes they will be the token accepted trans person in the far-right. Same as some Jews cosied up to the Nazis to extract personal privilege at the expense of snitching on their own people only to end up at the exact same end-game anyways.

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JasonDJ 15 points 2 years ago

The far right has a way of infiltrating people's minds when they are already mentally weak. They lurk around certain communities and poach people out of them.

This is how reddit was staunchly pro Ron Paul in 2008. Myself included. I still contend that that experience was a training ground for future internet-based astroturfing.

They wind up the 20 year old virgins and turn them into incels, and from there and turn them into misogynists. As an example. Remember when /r/conspiracy was an interesting place full of lively theorizing about UFOs and Bigfoot?

They dip into the source of your emotion...whether that be depression or desire, and widen it into a giant chasm ready to take in all your hate as if that will fix everything in the world. They blame your x on y, and to fix y you gotta vote for R.

The funny thing is....this is the exact same story we are told after some idiot starts shooting up a mall. That they were targeted by extremists online. Same book, different protagonist.

Should we just admit that the rise of the far right is just a symptom of a long unaddressed mental health crisis in the US, and certain people exploiting that for their own gain, or is it too soon for that?

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coronach 11 points 2 years ago

Should we just admit that the rise of the far right is just a symptom of a long unaddressed mental health crisis in the US, and certain people exploiting that for their own gain, or is it too soon for that?

100%. The sickness of the system comes from inequalities and gutted education. Thanks, Reagan!

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Wahots 1 point 2 years ago
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Wahots 12 points 2 years ago

One of my buddies suffered from the same problem. He was left out and generally held at arms length until he was shown love, or at least understanding. He flipped almost overnight and realized how grave his mistakes were. He ended up becoming a teacher and hopes to help students before they made the same sort of mistakes he did when his teachers were shitty to him. Props to him for breaking the cycle.

He still regrets how far he pushed some people away, and the actions he took as a teen. But he is much happier now and we have mended our friendships with him.

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KammicRelief 3 points 2 years ago

Wow. I would be nosy too. :-D

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rottingleaf -5 points 2 years ago

For me it's actually hard to respect someone's political views if they haven't tried the rest.

Which is why "cancel culture" itself is maybe not very important, but the very idea that someone has said something wrong 10 years ago and must apologize or be ostracized is dubious, because it automatically means that the person expressing it either never doubted their own views or is a hypocrite who lies about their own path to what they are, or even worse, a conformist coward. Conformists are always the worst kind of fascists and supporting mechanisms which reward conformism is the worst thing one can do.

Every worthy intelligent person I know has been all over the place in the past. Pointing out inconsistencies not by "party line" and popularity, but inside their own logic may have limited use, but that's assuming the person judging understands that logic, and humans are complex.

FFS, Exupery's Citadel jumps all over the place inside itself. And I don't think Eco's views can be characterized more precisely than "generally left". And Tolkien - there are sometimes kindergarten-level articles triumphantly accusing him of being this or that, but again you can't.

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eldavi -14 points 2 years ago

anecdotally: t-female-presenting people tend to have conservative views; so there's a good chance your friends views haven't changed much.

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LadyAutumn 21 points 2 years ago

Idk what trans women you have met but conservative views are extremely unpopular in the entirety of the transgender community. Being alt-right would get you entirely ostracized and barred from accessing most trans communities and spaces. Queer people are significantly less likely to be conservative than cisgender heterosexual people.

I also have no clue why you describe trans women that way. "t-female-presenting people". You can just call us trans women, or transfeminine people if you're including feminine non-binary people as well.

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eldavi 3 points 2 years ago

Idk what trans women you have met but conservative views are extremely unpopular in the entirety of the transgender community.

i've had the opposite experience from living 15 years in the san francisco bay area.

Queer people are significantly less likely to be conservative than cisgender heterosexual people.

lgbtqa+ as a whole yes; but less so from the "t" part

I also have no clue why you describe trans women that way. “t-female-presenting people”. You can just call us trans women, or transfeminine people if you’re including feminine non-binary people as well.

i was corrected several times in the past when i said trans women or trans girl from trans-female-presenting people.

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LadyAutumn 8 points 2 years ago

Trans women or trans feminine people is fine. The other way you've been seemingly corrected towards is reminiscent of "TIM" and "TIF" which are two transphobic terms meant to invalidate trans people.

Your little "less so from the T part" belies something of your beliefs here. You also, again, have no clue what you're talking about. Living in a particular area does not instill in you broad understandings of the sociopolitical beliefs of some demographic. Just that the people you've met in that area have, in your perception, been more likely to hold those views.

Does not pan out in reality. I have a feeling I know how you're going to respond to this. I'd love to see you prove that inkling wrong.

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SkyeStarfall 7 points 2 years ago

What are you on about 😭

I think this is more of a reflection of the circles you have been in, than the trans community at large. I have never seen a trans person wanting to be called "trans-female-presenting". That's some shit that conservatives say, a roundabout way of denying the identity.

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Wereduck 4 points 2 years ago

It's interesting to me that your experience is so vastly different from mine given we live in the same area (SF bay area). Most trans people I know, including myself, fall on the far left, and at significantly higher rates than the cis people I know (Queer or not). I've also never heard the term "t-female-presenting" before, it is completely foreign to me. I mostly hear and use "trans women" or "transfeminine".

I wonder if there's another demographic factor, or you are in a unique community of trans people. The people in my circle are generally 20-35, nonreligious, working class, often living paycheck to paycheck, and are actively and primarily in community with other trans people, as a support structure. How would you describe your circle?

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eldavi 2 points 2 years ago

I wonder if there’s another demographic factor, or you are in a unique community of trans people. The people in my circle are generally 20-35, nonreligious, working class, often living paycheck to paycheck, and are actively and primarily in community with other trans people, as a support structure. How would you describe your circle?

i had a similar thought and now i think it's because i only hung out with latinos at the time since my ex was friends w them and he was mexican. english was no one's first language, except for i, nor were they born in the united states nor any other english speaking country so maybe there was some sort of cultural or language translation happening since reading trans-feminine-presenting sounds odd when i read it out loud.

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Wereduck 1 point 2 years ago

Interesting! Most I know were either born in the US or have been in the US since they were kids, primarily communicate in english, and discovered their transness while here. You might be right with the cultural/language translation being a factor. But I've also seen "Transexual", "Transgénero", "mujer/hombre trans" used by Spanish speakers which tracks not that far from common English usage. I wonder if there's a different distinction being made or if it's intertwined with the particular individuals' conservative ideology in some way.

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Khrux 1 point 2 years ago

I've since moved to a very left wing city and I've met a lot of trans women. Most have strong political views for sure, but those views are very far left wing too.

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eldavi 3 points 2 years ago

i moved away from new york in 2009 san francisco in 2019 and have lived in austin and chicago since then; this exchange is teaching me that chicago, austin and the lemmyverse trans communities are more alike then any of them are to new york or san francisco.

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Draegur 69 points 2 years ago

good.

choices have consequences.

no one who endorses a psychotic dictator should ever be allowed to feel comfortable in life.

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MindTraveller -4 points 2 years ago

Psychosis refers to a mental state characterised by hallucinations and paranoid delusions. Are you saying Trump hears voices in his head he thinks are real?

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Draegur 12 points 2 years ago

a not inaccurate description of his behaviors.

especially the paranoid delusions.

his constant professing of what "people" "say" "to him", especially particularly absurd things that there is no evidence anyone has ever said to him, would also technically meet the definition of him hearing voices - IF he is not lying. Which, to be fair, he could be, because he lies about a lot of shit all the time.

Impossible to rule out. Looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, swims like a duck. I'm no ornithologist but heuristically speaking treating the proverbial duck-like phenomenon as though it is a duck coincides with a statistically high probability of ideal results.

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MindTraveller -2 points 2 years ago

I don't think Trump's delusions are paranoid. In fact, he's remarkably unbothered given the very real dangers he faces. If he suffers from delusions, I would say they're the opposite - confident delusions.

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psvrh 68 points 2 years ago

Apparently, Jews for Hitler are also having some trouble. They're commiserating with the black members of the KKK and the Association of Marxist-Leninist Landlords.

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samus12345 67 points 2 years ago

Leopard-loving people say their leopard face-eating support is ruining their lives

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Irremarkable 65 points 2 years ago

Being a complete moron ain't exclusive to straight people.

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frezik 64 points 2 years ago

“I’m almost anti-gay,” Dorman told The Post. “It’s an embarrassment to see this kind of behavior… I’d really invite them to go to Iran or Gaza. See what that does for you. See how fast they throw you in prison or kill you.”

"And that's why I'm supporting a party that wants to do the same thing."

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some_guy 11 points 2 years ago

So you're super fucking racist? (Not you, the person quoted from the article.) Ok, got it. Just wait until they do away with all the people who don't look like you and then find out how that goes.

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AirDevil 58 points 2 years ago

I had a friend who is gay and supported Mitt Romney back in the day. He campaigned against gays. Obama won and legalized same-sex marriage. She is now married to her wife. Reminds me of her

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eldavi 7 points 2 years ago

obama didn't legalize same sex marriage; the supreme court did

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AirDevil 1 point 2 years ago

Granted, you're technically right. Support for it was certainly a large part of Obama's campaign though. It's unclear what the overall result would have been for Obergfell vs Hodges with an administration that would have been vitriolic to the ruling.

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eldavi 1 point 2 years ago

I believe marriage is between a man and a woman. I am not in favor of gay marriage.

-- barrack obama 2008 during his campaign.

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AirDevil 1 point 2 years ago

Voted against DOMA and eventually repealed it. There were some weird semantics about naming nomenclature of calling it a marriage in the early 2000's. During the primaries he gave vague answers about some religions being opposed to it but did flip from earlier statements about same-sex marriages in his earlier career

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jpreston2005 57 points 2 years ago

I knew a gay republican couple. They both cheated on each other constantly. They didn't do anything pro-gay or even remotely lgbt themed. They were actively ashamed of who they were. Both from affluent families, so that makes sense. One of them got me super drunk, and then took advantage of me while his partner was out of town. These are not good people.

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ByteOnBikes 27 points 2 years ago

Ah, the Hateful Gay Type. Met a few of them in my life, all Trump supporters too. Never made any damn sense to me. Like they are driven by being a bitter piece of shit.

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captainlezbian 22 points 2 years ago

I get the feeling they’re just normal hateful people who happen to be gay and are angry about it and committed to making it everyone’s problem

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catloaf 7 points 2 years ago

Gay people are just like all other people.

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lolcatnip 5 points 2 years ago

I think the implication is that "angry gay" is a distinct category with traits that aren't purely the result of being angry or being gay.

Also I think people get way too hung up on the idea that being "normal" is good, so not being normal must be bad. Since that probably can't be fixed, I think it's better to use the word "typical" instead of normal because it's not so loaded.

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catloaf 3 points 2 years ago

Good point. I've changed it.

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Moneo 2 points 2 years ago

hehe. You're implying gay people aren't regular people.

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LaunchesKayaks 23 points 2 years ago

I know two married men who are openly and claim to be happily gay, adopted 4 children, but are so pro-trump and all that crazy shit. Idk how they can be like that. As a gay woman, it's so confusing.

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GreyEyedGhost 13 points 2 years ago

As a straight guy, I'm also confused.

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collapse_already 54 points 2 years ago

"I am one of the good gays. There is no way they are sending me to Daschau."

...

Shocked pikachu

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Viking_Hippie 54 points 2 years ago

Me as any vulnerable minority supporting Trump's fascist project:

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Ranvier 53 points 2 years ago

“I’m almost anti-gay,” Dorman told The Post. “It’s an embarrassment to see this kind of behavior… I’d really invite them to go to Iran or Gaza. See what that does for you. See how fast they throw you in prison or kill you.”

The internalized homophobia is strong with this one. It's honestly really sad. I mean, he's an ass. But it's still kind of sad.

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HomerianSymphony 1 point 2 years ago

The internalized homophobia is strong with this one.

And let’s not forgot the Islamophobia.

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chalupapocalypse 50 points 2 years ago

You don't have to be smart to be gay

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kerrigan778 48 points 2 years ago

They think it's ruining their lives now? Wait till after the election

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Zier 46 points 2 years ago

I would never suck a MAGA dick. Enjoy being lonely while your cult worships the orange fascist!

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MindTraveller 3 points 2 years ago

MAGA isn't a cult. Cults are small. MAGA is big enough to be a religion, which is far more dangerous.

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neidu2 20 points 2 years ago

Cult is just a word the big congregation uses about the small congregation

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Agent641 6 points 2 years ago

The new lexicon is "High demand group"

This encompasses cults, religions, MLMs, and all sorts of other groups that behave cult-like attributes

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Sterile_Technique 15 points 2 years ago
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MindTraveller -6 points 2 years ago

Well, no. When you're talking about the kind of massive institutional power of the kind that buys politicians and institutes theocratic dictatorships, that kind of power is exclusive to larger religions. You won't see that kind of thing from a cult. Now a cult may well have beliefs just as vile as a religion, and it may ruin lives, but it doesn't have the institutional power it takes to crush all opposition like you see from MAGA and Christianity.

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davidagain 11 points 2 years ago

The church of scientology.

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Enkrod 7 points 2 years ago

Anti-theist here, religion in all it's forms is a blight on humanity, but let's not muddle the waters with misused vocabulary.

The difference between a cult and a religion is not the number of believers, it's how much they enforce groupthink, how hard it is to leave and if they are based around a charismatic leader who profits directly from the imposed sameness and thought control. Generally cults:

  • Rush you into joining and discourage or disallow questions.
  • Followers are encouraged to worship a specific group leader.
  • Leaders dictate in great detail all aspects of followers’ lives.
  • Followers are personally monitored to ensure they’re following guidelines.
  • Methods of control are used to keep members close.

That's how, for example the catholic church isn't a cult but scientology is. The sharp surveilance and strong measures in place to prevent deviancy make all the difference. It's easy to leave catholicism, but leaving scientology can even be dangerous.

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MindTraveller -3 points 2 years ago

That's a measure of the abusiveness of a religion and has nothing to do with its size. I already explained in depth in another comment the political motivations for creating a second, fake definition of the word cult. If you consult Merriam Webster you'll see the first definition of the word cult is "a religion regarded as unorthodox or spurious", and none of the definitions mention abuse, because your claim is ahistorical myth.

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Lemminary 3 points 2 years ago

Cults are completely different from religion and size is not a defining factor. They're more similar to a con and will sometimes use religion to exert control.

Knitting Cult Lady is great! She has a video outlining 7 defining characteristics of cults but I can't find it.

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MindTraveller 5 points 2 years ago

That's a myth perpetuated by Christian mums during the satanic panic. Back in the 60s the hippie movement was in full swing and young people were abandoning Christianity to follow pagan religions like Wicca and Hellenism. Christian pastors felt threatened, so they came up with a conspiracy to take the word cult (which up until then had meant a small religion) and make it a bad word by association with abuse. That's why all the historical examples of cults that predate the 60s have no association with abuse. You take an example like the Cult of Dionysus and there's no pejorative meaning to the word.

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Lemminary 4 points 2 years ago

I don't think it's a myth if it has become an area of study. Yes, words have different meanings like "theory" does in and out of academia, but the current understanding of the word is much more comprehensive than a small religion. And MAGA is most definitely a cult of personality that uses religion as a tool.

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theangryseal 2 points 2 years ago

You’re right. Even the moonies had big politicians kissing up to them once they got big enough and no one blinked, despite their leader openly claiming he was above Jesus Christ of Nazareth on the heavenly totem poll.

We’re dealing with a very strange religion.

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Zier 0 points 2 years ago

Same thing. Cults are never small.

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FlyingSquid 46 points 2 years ago

The person I really don't understand- I mean I know she's a horrible person, but I still don't understand it- is Caitlyn Jenner. She's supporting a party that openly wants to erase her.

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todd_bonzalez 53 points 2 years ago
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RustyShackleford 8 points 2 years ago

Money talks.

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Fuckfuckmyfuckingass 3 points 2 years ago

And bullshit walks.

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Fuzzy_Red_Panda 3 points 2 years ago

I never thought about it that way but that makes perfect sense.

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norimee 45 points 2 years ago

She is the typical Republican -"Oh, but I'm the exeption. Thats different."- type. She also speaks out publicly and loudly against trans women in women's sports and then turns around and plays a women's golf tournament.

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FlyingSquid 29 points 2 years ago

I guess I can't fathom the level of cognitive dissonance it takes to vociferously get behind people who want you dead, but I guess these people existed too- https://en.wikipedia.org/...

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theangryseal 12 points 2 years ago

I’m glad you guys always come packing this link. Folks should know about this.

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solsangraal 11 points 2 years ago
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catloaf 6 points 2 years ago

Yeah. Cognitive dissonance is "the mental disturbance people feel when their beliefs and actions are inconsistent and contradictory". If you're happy with holding contradictory beliefs, that's doublethink.

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Pulptastic 1 point 2 years ago

Yeah but golf isn't a sport.

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LaunchesKayaks 16 points 2 years ago

She has money. It's a total "rules for thee but not for me" situation

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WindyRebel 7 points 2 years ago

They’re going to find out, too late, that they’re not immune to bullets, windows, or poison and that their money can be seized by the ones who disappear them.

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LaunchesKayaks 4 points 2 years ago

Yep. I'm absolutely terrified that I'll have to go into the closet again. I'm afraid my one homophobic and transphobic coworker would report me if being gay becomes straight up illegal. Only person I know personally who isn't cool with it.

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AA5B 5 points 2 years ago

It’s both better and worse than that. It’s extremely unlikely that being gay could become straight up illegal, but is it really any different if discrimination is ok, gay marriage and family benefits are outlawed, being gay is again a “security concern”, police harassment is ok, and people again become hostile?

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prole 42 points 2 years ago

Give it a few months after Trump wins and it will literally ruin their lives.

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intensely_human 3 points 2 years ago

All that anti-gay legislation Trump signed last time? It’s gonna be double this time!

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necromancyr 38 points 2 years ago

"I don't understand why other people at the synagogue treat me this way," says member of Jews for Hitler.

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owenfromcanada 32 points 2 years ago

Once again... leopards, faces

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return2ozma 30 points 2 years ago

GOOD!

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Retrograde 28 points 2 years ago

"Gay man who put face inside the leopard cage is sad that his face keeps getting eaten"

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ghostface 29 points 2 years ago

Damn, black gays for trump must be getting pounded then. Pun intended 🙂

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PRUSSIA_x86 26 points 2 years ago

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pelletbucket 23 points 2 years ago

when do we start testing people's lead levels before letting them in office

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EgoNo4 8 points 2 years ago

When do we start testing people's lead levels before letting them vote?

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wreckedcarzz 5 points 2 years ago

reproduce*

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davidagain 4 points 2 years ago

I'm not sure that the 64-year-old gay man featured at the end of the article is gonna do a lot of procreation.

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wreckedcarzz 2 points 2 years ago

Nah this is a blanket-rule, you get tested and you get tested, everybody gets tested!

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pelletbucket 4 points 2 years ago

I don't think it matters how brain damaged you are, you're still allowed to vote. you do have to be competent to hold office though

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dudinax 4 points 2 years ago

You do?

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pelletbucket 1 point 2 years ago

yeah you're allowed to expel people from office for gross incompetence

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cupcakezealot 23 points 2 years ago

the same gay people who would tell the cops stonewall is right up the street

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Blackmist 23 points 2 years ago path: 0 11077312, hotness: undefined, score: 23, children: 0
RIPandTERROR 21 points 2 years ago

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AnarchoSnowPlow 21 points 2 years ago

"Well, well, well, if it isn't the consequences of my own actions."

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Snapz 18 points 2 years ago

"OWWW! MY OWN FOOT THAT I SHOT!!!"

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tigeruppercut 11 points 2 years ago

I never thought leopards would shoot MY foot!

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half_built_pyramids 13 points 2 years ago

Lol the cognitive dissonance levels here, insane.

I vote for criminalization of my friends and family. Why are they pissed at me?

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asymmetric 12 points 2 years ago

Whatever, fuggem

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A_Random_Idiot 6 points 2 years ago

Or don't, preferably.

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captainlezbian 11 points 2 years ago

I have no sympathy. I’ve dealt with a lot of difficulties being gay, and yes in some ways the fact that I get less real political options sucks, but the solution isn’t to decide that it’s ok with fascists when they’re gay.

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Crackhappy 10 points 2 years ago

Reminds me of Uncle Ruckus.

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Churbleyimyam 8 points 2 years ago

This has strong nottheonion vibes.

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2484345508 8 points 2 years ago
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Davel23 8 points 2 years ago

Good.

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xc2215x 7 points 2 years ago

Maybe they should stop supporting him.

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11111one11111 6 points 2 years ago

Did anyone read the article? Or am I not understanding the article correctly? Isnt the article saying their life is harder because they're being rejected by the LGBTQ community for supporting Trump? Or lol am I misunderstanding this comment section that seems to be mostly implying they're life is worse from the other MAGAs rejecting them?

Edit: I'm laughing at how bad I am reading the room not at anything the article or comments are saying.

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TurtleJoe 9 points 2 years ago

The article says that the specific people they're featuring have been ostracized from the gay community. I wish the article was longer, because there's a remarkable lack of self-awareness on display in the few quotes it includes.

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GasMeterCrasher 6 points 2 years ago

It's a terrible article and mostly click bait. My take away is they are being rejected by both sides. Big surprise.

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mydude 6 points 2 years ago

Back in the day, if you were gay, ignorant people thought their lifestyle had bad influece on others. They were afraid of the consequences of having gay people living close to them. The gays were ostracized, persecuted, ridiculed, excluded from bars/communities/etc. I just post this comment as a reminder. Please be nice to others. You don't know where they come from. Try to be including, start dialogues, build bridges.

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eldavi 3 points 2 years ago

i was alive back in that day and having to vote for someone that actively ostracized, persecuted and ridiculed my life until he opportunistically switched sides very recently hurts my soul.

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itsgroundhogdayagain 5 points 2 years ago

Wait til you see what happens in another 7 months

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BonesOfTheMoon 5 points 2 years ago

They're in the sunken place.

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intensely_human 5 points 2 years ago

I’d bet money that it isn’t their MAGA support that’s ruining their lives, but rather everyone else’s ostracizing them that’s doing it.

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Juice 2 points 2 years ago

More victims of wokeness, smh /s

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thatsnothowyoudoit 4 points 2 years ago
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Confused_Emus 3 points 2 years ago
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krelvar 1 point 2 years ago
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pelletbucket 1 point 2 years ago

lol ok

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courval 0 points 2 years ago

It's not that these people are necessarily dumb it's a kink like any other. They want to keep the thrill of getting off on doing something illegal and socially unacceptable (in the fascist society they support)

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timewarp -47 points 2 years ago

I can understand people disagreeing with them, but kicking sand and attacking people is literally the actions of fascist too. You don't win people over by attacking them.

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Passerby6497 52 points 2 years ago

You don't prevent your bar from becoming a nazi bar by asking nicely though.

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timewarp -34 points 2 years ago

So what's the plan then? You going to punch the other side in the face to win their votes and show them how anti-fascist you are?

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TallonMetroid 39 points 2 years ago

Maybe if fascists got their faces punched in more often they'd understand that getting punched in the face sucks and that maybe they shouldn't advocate for punching people in the face in the first place.

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timewarp -27 points 2 years ago

Was Biden voting against same-sex marriages and gay people serving in the military a fascist once? Will Democrats call Biden a recovered fascist?

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Passerby6497 22 points 2 years ago

You make it clear they're not welcome in the community, by force if necessary, and you let them back in once they've shown they can be trusted to be a member of the community again. IF they show they've changed.

I've been on a committee of people making this decision more than once. Rarely do people change enough to be welcomed back. Community self policing is the only way to really protect yourself when the government shows they wont.

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timewarp -30 points 2 years ago

Where do they go? Do you propose that America has red states where only conservatives should live & blue states where liberals can live? Do you want to put over half of voters in concentration camps?

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nobleshift 9 points 2 years ago
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memfree 23 points 2 years ago

Reminds me of a piece that is gone -- but the below rephrase comes from here: https://mstdn.social/@ZhiZhu/109502665651546617

"The Paradox of Tolerance disappears if you look at tolerance, not as a moral standard, but as a social contract.

If someone does not abide by the contract, then they are not covered by it.

In other words: The intolerant are not following the rules of the social contract of mutual tolerance.

Since they have broken the terms of the contract, they are no longer covered by the contract, and their intolerance should NOT be tolerated."

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davidagain 6 points 2 years ago

I like that. That's a helpfully consistent way of framing it.

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nobleshift 1 point 2 years ago
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timewarp -25 points 2 years ago

So do you have a link or somewhere I can learn more about your domestic terrorist organization?

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nobleshift 4 points 2 years ago
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timewarp -16 points 2 years ago

So you keep this information stored on your local computer? Isn't it dangerous?

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Feathercrown 8 points 2 years ago

You don't, but at this point if they haven't chosen the correct side it's kind of on them.

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timewarp -19 points 2 years ago

So you attack them & tell them it is their fault that you're attacking them? Kind of like how an abuser would blame the abused?

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Feathercrown 14 points 2 years ago

Your analogy assumes innocence. In fact, it's so strained that I have to believe you're operating in bad faith here, or made a lapse in judgement.

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timewarp -19 points 2 years ago

It assumes that you're the instigator of physical violence.

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Today 8 points 2 years ago

That sounds like the right answer, but really, I'd be right there kicking sand.

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