World Cup tourists aren’t leaving tips — and restaurants are fighting back

2 days ago by stumu415 to c/world

The World Cup does not runneth over — with decent tips.
Assassassin 351 points 2 days ago

restaurants are fighting back

Unless it's by raising their prices by 15-20% and paying their employees a living wage, it ain't gonna work. Tipping is moronic.

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NOT_RICK 99 points 2 days ago

That’s essentially what they’re doing, but with a surcharge rather than just raising their menu because we love adding on tax and fees here in the US

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frostedtrailblazer 34 points 2 days ago

It’s a bad deal that only policy could really fix at this point.

If you’re the only store with real menu prices then customers just get price shocked at what they’re actually going to be paying when they can go next door to another restaurant that doesn’t tell you the full price up front. Customers would be upset at a mid $18 burger, but are fine with a mid $16 burger + $2 tip.

Imo, the problems stem from the forced rat race of no one having enough money excluding the rich. Prices being high wouldn’t matter if people got paid more, but cause we’re not getting paid more, the companies that target the general population just make everything into cheap knockoff crap to still turn the same or better profit margins.

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a_non_monotonic_function -1 points 2 days ago

Policy created the problem.

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Assassassin 12 points 2 days ago

That's also a surefire way to piss everyone off! It's hilarious to see the extent that restaurants will go to keep the menu price low.

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AbidanYre 8 points 2 days ago

I mean, that's basically what airlines did when they started charging $20 for checked baggage so they could get the price Expedia shows to be as low as possible.

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JimmyMcGill 13 points 2 days ago

I think you mean cabin bag

Fortunately the EU is revoking that

Base price needs to be with a cabin bag + personal item. Then they can make a discount if one decides not to take the cabin bag but at least the comparison includes it from the start

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ArcaneSlime -2 points a day ago

Tbf they'd have to reprint their menus on that fancy laminated paper just while the eurotrash is in town and then swap back to the old ones when they leave in like what, a week? When will this dumb association football tournament end?

Anyway nobody is going to Kinkos, they're gonna add a 20% surcharge in the computer for the week and remove it after. I hope they only do it to people with an accent too and give locals the normal price.

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Frozengyro 28 points 2 days ago

They'll raise their prices and give the employees nothing, just wait and see.

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Strider 5 points 2 days ago

Correct, they should pay their workforce (surprise!).

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ArcaneSlime -52 points 2 days ago

Hang on.

So you're fine if restaurants raise their prices 20%,

But not fine simply doing the math to add that 20% yourself?

What is the real difference there? The price would then be the same, you'd just get a lower "advertised" price. Functionally there is no difference tbh, besides the marketing of saying the burger is $9.99 instead of the $11.98 you'd pay with a 20% tip.

So now the menu says "burger, $11.99" but you don't tip, ok, so, and? What really is the functional difference here? You're paying the same price either way, the literal only difference is you have to do the math yourself or be an absolute prick for a 20% discount because fuck that server. Is it just hatred of math?

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Joelk111 35 points 2 days ago

I don't like doing pointless things myself, especially when other nations have solved the problem.

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ArcaneSlime -49 points 2 days ago

Mmhmm, so you admit there's functionally no difference other than having to do math and have no argument, but still refuse to admit I'm right so you're gonna pull the "other nations" card and shut down?

Well guess what, "you're" (those visiting I mean, I don't have an airtag in your pocket) in this nation so get used to how it works here loser, I guess. You don't see me going to Japan and shoving tips in their server's pockets, because tipping is disrespectful there and despite it being a cultural difference between us I'm not too fucking stupid to adjust.

The funniest part to me is I'm the one with math anxiety (it's real), and I'm still capable of doing this..

7917

OHHHH you want a 20% discount but also want to feel morally superior to the server you stiffed to get that discount, after you've paid the owner their profits to perpetuate the system you claim to hate. Figures.

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JimmyMcGill 37 points 2 days ago

Because tipping is inherently biased (there’s plenty of data that shows that it’s unfair af) plus the whole history of why it exists (read it up).

Pay your workers a living wage and get rid of the excessive tipping culture you have there. It’s also bleeding into our side of the pond

Since you are already calling people loser it tells me everything I need to know about you.

Cheers

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otp 27 points 2 days ago

So you're fine if restaurants raise their prices 20%,

But not fine simply doing the math to add that 20% yourself?

Yes, exactly.

What is the real difference there?

Well...

The price would then be the same, you'd just get a lower "advertised" price.

It's this. It's misleading advertising. And this kind of misleading advertising is proven to get people to spend more money, which is exactly why restaurants do it.

Same thing with not including tax in the advertised price. It's all about screwing over the customer. Nothing else.

EDIT: I'm sorry people are being so hard on you. I'm not here to insult you and downvote you for having an opinion I dislike, lol

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ArcaneSlime -22 points 2 days ago

You're cool lmao, those others are selfish pricks without a real argument who want a discount. They're one step off from the people who make fake complaints to get free food but for some reason don't want to return the "mistake" (it wasn't a mistake, they want free food, they think I can't remember 30 whole minutes ago but turns out I'm not a goldfish). You actually had something to add, not only is that "fine" but I like it!

Now, I do actually agree with you, but also functionally everyone here knows "burger $9.99" includes neither tax nor tip, so it is actually $9.99+10%tax+20%tip.

I'm not saying I'd be mad if we changed the menus to reflect those additional charges, but as it stands we don't and as evidenced by this thread, whether the world agrees or not they know that is the custom. As such claims of false advertising are tenuous at best, you knew going in, and we know you knew, being a gaijin/n'wah is no excuse (at least after let's say two days and two purchases).

For instance, though I've never been I know tipping is seen as rude in Japan, as such if I ever did get to visit (too poor, and that's another thing if you can afford to travel like that you're doing better than EVERY server so help them out like you would the homeless, they're close enough to homeless as is), I wouldn't be attempting to shove my American custom of tipping the workers onto them. Literally "same but reverse" here.

You're right, it is in a sense "false advertising," but still there's not really a functional difference since everyone knows (or once they learn upon their first purchase if they didn't, I suppose).

Idk how EU countries handle sales tax though, is it actually included on the sticker price like they do in New Hampshire, or should they be more used to this concept than they are letting on?

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TheparishofChigwell 14 points 2 days ago

It's called VAT and its included in the price. Companies get taxed on category specific things and upcharge the base. We see what we pay here. In fact there are laws about price as well, if the price at the till differs from the shown price on the pricecard/tag they must sell it at the price shown or risk fines

Beware though, buy it first then go service desk for refunds

If you complain in store or at the register they run out and fix the tag

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LostCarcosan 4 points a day ago

those others are selfish pricks without a real argument who want a discount.

Lmao that's not at all the problem and you're here in bad faith if you act like you believe that it is. I just want servers to be paid a fair wage (minimum wage at the very least but the problems with minimum wage are an entirely different conversation) and not be expected to pay a multimillion dollar company's employees for them

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otp 1 point 12 hours ago

Yeah, what I'm saying is that I don't want to be nickle and dimed, because it makes me feel like a victim of deceptive marketing.

No matter how strongly you know that your $9.99 burger is actually $14.00 (or more because tipping on the machine is often calculated after tax), psychological studies show that $9.99 tends to subconsciously mean "under $10" to people...and to services like Google Maps.

We've created this culture that it's okay to subconsciously deceive the customer to extract an extra $0.01 (or $1.00) out of every purchase...and an extra 10%...and an extra 20% if it's at a restaurant.

People who set a price limit for themselves of $20 will gladly go into a restaurant and buy something that's $19.99 and feel like they've stayed within their budget.

This is the problem. I don't like living somewhere where "buy a meal for under $10!" means I need to spend at least $15.

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kbobabob 14 points 2 days ago

So you're cool with employers paying people $2.70 an hour because they might get 20% in tips? Advertising a lower price for something but then seeing extra charges on the bill that you didn't even know you agreed to when you sat down?

That makes more sense than just paying the people a livable wage and showing people the actual price they will pay?

Brainwashed people think this way.

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ArcaneSlime -5 points 2 days ago

No as I said, the employee feels a difference, tipping would then be mandatory as it is baked into the price, good for them.

But what is the actual functional difference TO YOU, the customer? Beyond having to do math and having a choice on tipping, of course. THAT was the question.

Yeah I am aware of my local customs and if I travel I learn the practices of the place I go, so "that doesn't happen to me." I see the price and know that tax will be added, and tip will be given, so math must be done. It really isn't that difficult. If I went to Japan I wouldn't tip, because it is rude there, so while I'd feel like a jerk not tipping as it is the culture I'm used to that is my problem to deal with instead of forcing them to take the cash.

Should it change? Sure. Has it? No. Until it does not tipping only harms those workers you claim to support.

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kbobabob 3 points a day ago

Here's the thing. I don't need something to affect me before I care. Some people really just can't grasp that concept.

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potpotato 12 points 2 days ago

This is dumb.

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ArcaneSlime -20 points 2 days ago

No u.

If you'd like to elaborate, I can too. For now that's all the response you get.

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potpotato 10 points 2 days ago

Your original rebuttal is dumb. Raise the prices, pay employees, eliminate tipping.

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fisch 181 points 2 days ago

It's not my fucking job to make sure your workers are paid appropriately. I came here for a fucking steak and some freedom fries. I paid for my fucking food and I just want to eat it in peace. Stop turning your problems into my problems.

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wjrii -62 points 2 days ago

But here's the thing, it ain't the owners' problem either. They're winning. The whole reason they do this is to externalize labor costs and do ad hoc market segmentation, except it's based on customers kinda being dicks. When you don't tip in the US, you have sided with the owners and have said to the server, "you are worth minimum wage."

Agitate the rest of the day. Tip at mealtime.

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OrteilGenou 71 points 2 days ago

Wrong

The owners are the bad actors here. They enjoy increased margins in an environment where additional salary top ups are somehow the customer's problem.

Pay your waitstaff you cheap fucks

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AbidanYre -22 points 2 days ago

The owners are the bad actors but the only person getting screwed when you don't tip is the server.

Don't want to tip, don't eat out. It's pretty simple.

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Grimy 23 points 2 days ago

If the job didn't come with the tip, they wouldn't be able to hire. Not tipping is the actual solution.

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SuperNovaStar 17 points 2 days ago

Or, don't eat places that don't pay their workers

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wjrii 3 points 2 days ago

I mean, that’s a better choice than “fuck my waiter, specifically and today, while not affecting his bosses’ bottom line at all.”

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SuperNovaStar 7 points 2 days ago

Yep. Continuing to patronize that establishment, whether or not you tip, perpetuates tipping culture.

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ArcaneSlime -7 points 2 days ago

Yes. Those are your choices. Either

A) don't eat places that don't pay their workers

Or

B) Tip at the place you chose to go to that relies on tips.

It's literally that simple.

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Halcyon 1 point 15 hours ago

And as a tourist, how do I find out if a place pays their workers? Talk to the manager before I enter a restaurant?

That's none of my business.

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NewNewAugustEast 0 points 2 days ago

To be fair, the workers dont want the livable wage either. 20% tip is much better than what they would get paid.

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stumu415 161 points 2 days ago

I wish this exposed tipping culture for what it is, but America is so deep in capitalism that you'll hear more complaints against this.

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Lydon_Feen 92 points 2 days ago

It's so fucking stupid

Just raise the prices by 20% and also pay the staff 20% more.

But fuck workers' rights and living wages, right?

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rafoix 69 points 2 days ago

They wouldn’t need to raise prices that much.

During the Obamacare debate the Papa John’s CEO was upset that he would have to raise pizza prices a few cents to pay for the health insurance his workers need. Wealthy people are psychopaths.

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Zahille7 16 points 2 days ago

For some reason I thought I remembered seeing an article about Papa John dying. Apparently I was mistaken.

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BassTurd 13 points 2 days ago

Bummer....

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ieatpwns 3 points 2 days ago

But then what do the owners get?

/s

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apfelwoiSchoppen -13 points 2 days ago

Tipping is fucking stupid but it is the current system for how US waiters earn a living. So to fuck them over and not tip does nothing to change the system and only leaves them overworked with no money.

Think materially and tip your servers. Believe me they would like it to change too. It isn't them that keeps the system in place. Big business has the money to lobby against our human and material needs.

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BussyCat 7 points 2 days ago

Servers don’t want the system to change as they make more money with tips than they would from a “livable wage”

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Akasazh 22 points 2 days ago

Former euro server here. Got a livable wage plus tips. Not the mandated kind, just the extras people would leave. That would net me 5 euros per hour above my livable wage.

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apfelwoiSchoppen 3 points 2 days ago

Y'all living privileged idealogue navel-gazed lives can do what you want I guess. We here in the working class are tired, overworked, and are trying to survive the day.

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apfelwoiSchoppen 0 points 2 days ago

This is generally false. Most waiters would see more consistent income with fewer instances of subjective nonsense like ideologues who don't believe they have to follow the basic cultural rules of the place in which they visit. There is an exceptional subset of waiters that would make less for sure but they are in a minority.

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Brkdncr -3 points 2 days ago

Not once you consider healthcare, taxes, and social security.

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nullify3112 3 points 2 days ago

If we all participated in a “tip strike” and stopped leaving tips, the front of the house staff that relies on it would quit. Eventually the restaurant owners would have to do something about it.

Unfortunately, it seems like the owners would rather add a gratuity fee than rise prices on the menu and pay a decent wage.

One can hope though that eventually, tipping would go away. Sorry bar tenders and servers. Some of you may struggle but it’s a sacrifice I’m willing to make meme

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ArcaneSlime 1 point a day ago

How about instead of a "tip strike" (aka "make the servers work for free until they get fed up because fuck them") you do a "boycott" ("not fucking go at all so you don't have to tip and you're not forcing the worker to serve you for free")?

You can't sacrifice your night out for your ideals but you can inconvenience your server? Real magnanimous, thanks.

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ieGod 2 points a day ago

Servers like tips. They're choosing this employment.

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BassTurd -1 points 2 days ago

Nope. It's not my obligation to pay their wages directly. They can accept no tip, they can lobby for a living wage from their employer, or they can find a different job. I am okay with all of the above.

The only way change happens is through action, not just crying about it. If you want change, stop tipping.

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kobra 6 points 2 days ago

ah yes, put the onus on the people just trying to survive while still patronizing the restaurant that the owner continues to make profits on.

If you feel this strongly, you should boycott all restaurants that make their servers rely on tips.

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ArcaneSlime 2 points 2 days ago

Yet still the only one hurt is the worker, the boss got theirs when you paid for your meal.

"The worker can leave if they don't like serving me for free while worrying about homelessness" yeah, and you could cook at home or go to a restaurant that doesn't use the tipping model (they exist), yet you chose to go somewhere that the worker relies on tips and enjoy in the exploitation with the owner, you are an essential part in keeping the business running the way it does. On top of that you exploit them further yourself by knowing full well how it works and who you're really hurting and justifying it in your selfish mind so you can pinch pennies. Even if the worker does quit the owner just pulls the top application off the stack and gives them a call, there's a revolving door of people willing to do whatever they have to to avoid becoming homeless. Most often that worker then just cycles to another restaurant an continues the cycle themselves as they can get another waitstaff job easier than anything else.

Not only are you literally changing nothing, you're actively participating in the exploitation you claim to be against, you're not the business owner, no, but without you his exploitation wouldn't work.

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ArcaneSlime -27 points 2 days ago

But then what is the difference? Literally just "not doing math?"

If burger $9.99 + 20% tip = $11.98, and you're fine with paying that $11.98, why does it make a difference if the menu says "$11.98" or you do the math yourself? Are you also mad tax (in most states) isn't included on the sticker price of retail goods, or are you fine doing your own math when it comes to tipping the government?

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WhyJiffie 17 points 2 days ago

the difference is false advertising. being able to know prices upfront and being able to make a fair decision on where to eat.

it is so weird this is not common sense.

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ArcaneSlime -21 points 2 days ago

And does that apply to taxes, which also aren't included in the menu price? Why am I supposed to take the brunt of this issue as a poor worker and not my boss or government? Fuck me for not wanting to be homeless? Why doesn't ONE comment in this thread besides mine mention taxes though they follow the exact same logic?

Is it because you want to pinch pennies, and you can choose to not tip but have to pay tax, and deep down you know you're only fucking over the employee but have to sanitize your conscience so you can save 20% on your bill?

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ArcaneSlime 3 points 2 days ago

Tbf, while the system exists as it does, not tipping the workers only hurts the workers you supposedly support, their employers don't care because they got theirs already and there's a revolving door of people who need work bad enough when the worker gets fed up.

If you actually wanted to help those workers you'd have to entirely not support businesses that use the tipping model by "not going there" and only go to ones that don't. Or you could go, but while there try and unionize servers, I suppose. But then when the workers strike for the thing you want you'll still have to not cross the picket line so it's the same in the end just more effective.

I practice what I preach btw, I only go to restaurants that don't run off tips for the most part, and I tip when I do happen end up at one of those places. Sometimes I'll tip even at places that don't really "run off tips" but I want to help out a bit, like my local taco truck, I love them so much and don't mind throwing them an extra $2 to show my appreciation, they're not rich people it's just a family trying to get by, with great prices no less.

To summarize: I don't pass out info on unionizing, but I do support non-tipping businesses on average and still don't fuck the workers over in a misguided attempt to hurt their boss when I do end up at a tipping place.

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kobra 2 points 2 days ago

This is it 100%.

I'm shocked at the amount of responses here willing to make the workers suffer so that they can continue getting their food/drinks and supporting the owners taking advantage of the system.

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PseudoSpock 155 points 2 days ago

What did you expect? They come from non tipping cultures. Where wait staff make livable wages. Not their fault we are incapable of paying people enough to live.

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bridgeburner 4 points a day ago

Tipping culture does exist in europe, but first of all, it isn't nearly as "mandatory" as it is in the US, and second of all we tip way less. There isn't a fixed percentage you "have to" tip. Usually, if the waiter was nice, it's just rounding up to an even sum. At least here in germany.

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ranzispa 4 points a day ago

In Spain tipping is there, but it's quite sparingly done.

I don't know any statistics, but wouldn't be surprised if people gave tips no more than once a month on average.

Depending on the place and service it could be rounding up the bill or adding a note for the waiter. Rarely a tip would go over 10€.

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chilicheeselies -96 points 2 days ago

When in rome, do as the Romans do. You may not agree with it, but it's how it works here and not doing it is taking advantage of a worker not the restaurant

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kahnclusions 59 points 2 days ago

No it’s not. The only one taking advantage of workers is the restaurant owner.

If tipping is optional, why the hell would anyone “choose” to pay more? Imagine if I sold you a phone and said you can buy this phone for $500 or you can optionally pay an extra $100 and get literally exactly the same product. That’s tipping.

If tipping is mandatory, then make it clear beforehand that there is a mandatory fee and how much it is.

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TBi 23 points 2 days ago

Or just gasp include it in the price like civilised countries…

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chonglibloodsport -20 points 2 days ago

If you raise prices then fewer people will eat at your restaurant because the prices are too high.

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chilicheeselies -6 points 2 days ago

If you go someplace and get waited on, and you KNOW that not tipping them means you basically took their labor for free, you are also an asshole. If you think not owning the business abdicates you from that, then you are just as bad as the business owner who thinks the custom abdicates them from paying a living wage. You're not a crusader for justice, you're a cheap jerk.

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Honytawk 1 point 14 hours ago

Their labour should be paid for by their employer, not the customers.

The only assholes here are the employers and the people who defend them.

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kahnclusions 0 points a day ago

In New York, which the article is about, the hourly wage for tipped employees is only $2.70 less than usual. So if a server waits on 5 tables an hour, each table only needs to tip $0.54 per hour to make up for the "lost" wage. Anything extra is just voluntarily financing the server's fancy new handbag or iPhone. And in New York, like most places now, the employer is required to make up the difference in their pay if they didn't get enough tips, so even if you don't tip you're not taking anything for free... the employer has to cover it.

Wait staff are assholes thinking they can guilt trip people to hand over extra money for free when they're simply doing their job. Doubly so when they aren't even sharing the tips with the kitchen staff who are doing the real work.

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TBi 54 points 2 days ago

So the restaurant owner is taking advantage of the worker but suddenly it’s my fault?

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queermunist -9 points 2 days ago

You could choose not to eat at restaurants that take advantage of their workers. That's always an option.

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TBi 15 points 2 days ago

Not many of those in the US. But I do this where I live. I do not support any restaurant here that expects tips so they don’t need to pay a living wage.

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Atomic 3 points 2 days ago

So, every time I'm traveling abroad, and about to go into a resturant, i should pull aside someone and ask if they're being taken advantage of?

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chilicheeselies -11 points 2 days ago

Well yeah. If you choose not to compensate your server then you are taking advantage of the situation as well.

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potustheplant 38 points 2 days ago

Nah, fuck tipping. Pay a livable wage.

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Alcoholicorn -12 points 2 days ago

Not tipping doesn't help us get there, it just means some server worked and didn't get paid.

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Diurnambule 18 points 2 days ago

If they don't get paid why work for these greedy bastard ?

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grepe 32 points 2 days ago

people like you, believing this kind of bullshit propaganda pushed by business owners lobby, are the reason why things are getting so bad in the US... next thing you'll tell me unions are bad and affordable healthcare is some communist bullshit.

if the business is not paying their employees livable wage they should not work there and the business should go bankrupt. yes, there are many people who wouldn't find any other job right now. and they can choose to suffer temporary unemployment now or accept to live indentured life forever.

history clearly shows that workers not accepting unbearable conditions ultimately leads to improvement for everyone. guilt-tripping customers into giving alm to employees instead of paying them actual wages is just postponing the inevitable.

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queermunist 6 points 2 days ago

If the business is not paying their employees a livable wage, customers shouldn't eat there.

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grepe -2 points a day ago

here we go again. always shift the blame...

it's not us producing excissive amounts of plastics and offering no alternatives. you must separate your trash to save the planet!

it's not us destroying the market and not paying our employees. if people really wanted the change they should boycot us!

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Atomic 28 points 2 days ago

Oh do fuck off with that. The customer isn't taking advantage of the worker or the resturant. The employer is taking advantage of the workers.

If it's not optional. Include it in the price up front so we all know what we're paying.

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ranzispa 8 points a day ago

I do agree with you, and I also find it extremely annoying that I am expected to give a tip. However, when I go to the US I know their society works like that, I am visiting and I respect their customs, regardless of how idiotic they seem to me, I just treat the tip as part of the price and there's that.

What I really find annoying of waiters in the US is that they know you'll give them a tip and attempt to their best to be servicing with you all the time. Asking you several times if all is good, you need something else and so on. I remember once I took a beer with my girlfriend in a bar and before I got to drinking half of that I was asked by 3 different waiters if everything was alright several times as well as being asked twice if I wanted another beer.

Fuck off guys, if I want something I'll ask you. You're not being kind by doing all this, just annoying.

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Atomic 2 points a day ago

Yes, because you know this, and you might just accept it as cost of doing business. But not everyone knows about this. And honestly, some might just forget as they're busy talking about the games or the stores or whatever else they want to go see and visit.

I also understand that's "how it works" in the US. I've visited plenty over the years.

But what I take issue with is when tourists are being blamed. Because they're not the problem. They contribute to additional profit for the resturant. The problem is the management that can get away with not paying their staff enough.

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angstylittlecatboy 2 points a day ago

You, tourist, not tipping ain't gonna change shit, it just leaves a working class person hungry. At this particular World Cup it's probably an at least somewhat well off customer leaving a working class person hungry, given how expensive tickets are.

You know what would end tipping culture? Unions. Act annoyed that it hasn't happened if you want, but it's not yours to change. For as much as Europeans like to lecture Americans about ineffective protest methods, they think doing something that benefits only them is a protest method. Don't go to restaurants in America if you can't accept this. Yeah I know, Lemmy people don't visit America, blah blah blah royal you.

I don't normally like generalizing people based on country or continent but I read it so damn much that I really stop giving a fuck when the people doing it reveal themselves to be massive hypocrites. It's like listening to a "do as I say not as I do" parent. (btw what's up with y'all condemning nativism in America and then falling hook line and sinker for it when it's your countries? I see that a lot. Yeah I know, Statue of Liberty poem, but the racist narratives are bullshit everywhere.) If the way I lean is a sign of entitlement, I better see you willing to confront YOUR entitlement.

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Atomic 2 points a day ago

No one is thinking that tourists will change your lack of labour laws. You're just feeling pissy because tourism for the Epstein Cup keeps highlighting everything fucked with the US. You, and this article are fantastic examples of what's wrong.

You're defaulting to blaming the tourists for not tipping, rather than the employers that dont pay their staff, or the legal framework that allows it to take place.

The resturants are all full with tourists. Clearly there's more than enough turnover and profit to pay staff with...

As for the last thing you wrote. I have no idea wtf you're talking about. Maybe you should check if your house/apartment has lead paint. That would explain a lot

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chilicheeselies -6 points 2 days ago

It is 100% taking advantage. If you accept the labor of a person and you know that most of their compensation is at your discretion, and you don't do it because you aren't forced to, you are just as exploitive if not more so. I mean do you really need it to be baked into the price to force you to do the right thing?

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Atomic 13 points 2 days ago

100% of their compensation is at my discretion. I'm paying for the meal. There was an advertised and agreed upon price of said meal.

When i go into a grocery store to buy milk. I'm not tipping my cashier for handling my transaction. I expect that to be included in the price of the products i buy.

The right thing. Is for the employer to pay their employees.

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Greyghoster 22 points 2 days ago

Most people from a non tipping culture don’t know how to tip. They don’t know how much, is it inappropriate, do the stuff get it or does management steal it. Really is a big deal.

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Diurnambule 7 points 2 days ago

Lol non tipping culture... Bro ... In Europe we tip often when the server is nice and provide a good service. It is unimaginable that server are some sort of slaves which have to beg customer because they employer don't pay them their fair share...

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Aceticon 2 points 2 days ago

Tipping culture is not the same all over Europe.

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ranzispa 2 points a day ago

Definitely not the same thing. I was very confused when in the US as to what I should tip. I knew tipping was expected but in several occasions I asked the waiter what an appropriate tip would be.

In most cases adding a couple dollars to the price is not enough and could be seen as an insult.

In Europe I don't often give a 20€ tip after paying 100€ in a restaurant.

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chilicheeselies -3 points 2 days ago

It's not hard to do the smallest amount of research about a place you are travelling to. I travel all over and always look up the local customs.

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Greyghoster 2 points a day ago

So have I but I find it hard to know what is appropriate and what’s ridiculous and there is always this internal tension about am I getting ripped off or am I ripping someone off. One of distortions seems to be waiting staff received more than the people doing the cooking. It’s a really bad system.

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gergolippai 18 points 2 days ago

you mean "when in a dystopian exploitative society, do as the dystopian exploitative societies do"? :)

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WildPalmTree 1 point 2 days ago

I think it means "don't go and if you go, shop at a supermarket". Problems solved.

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ArcaneSlime 2 points a day ago

I think you're attempting to be facetious, but like

YES.

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wiezy_lrwi 17 points 2 days ago

I understand your point of view, and even to a certain degree agree (too bad it’s about tipping because fuck that). But these are not normal tourists you are getting, that did any kind of research. These people are here to drink beer and shout at each other, and are already very upset that everything is so expensive.

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ProdigiousInsanity 16 points 2 days ago

They are from Rome though....

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DupaCycki 14 points 2 days ago

So, when in Nazi Germany... do as the Nazis do?

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MnemonicBump 9 points 2 days ago

If you fully knew that Nazi Germany was Nazi Germany and you just decided to go anyway cause you love sports so much?

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Aceticon 0 points 2 days ago

There really isn't a Side Of Good to be on in the specific case of World Cup Tourists vs US Restaurants.

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chilicheeselies 0 points 2 days ago

Lol bruh, it's tipping relax.

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Honytawk 0 points 13 hours ago

So we can just not tip right? Because its just tipping and we should relax.

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Kjell 4 points 2 days ago

This is the way, both for tipping and other local customs.

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FatVegan 2 points 2 days ago

Rome has no tipping culture

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Proprietary_Blend -4 points a day ago

These people are shit.

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ArcaneSlime -4 points a day ago

Fucking Eurotrash the lot of them.

I don't even disagree, tipping sucks and we should raise the price 30% and give that directly to the employee because fuck non-tippers.

But as it stands the only people these eurotrash are hurting are the workers they claim to support, then they say they're hurting you for your own good.

Go the fuck home.

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Schmuppes 130 points 2 days ago

The cash registers are ringing, the beer is flowing and the tables are full.

So there is money to pay staff, right?

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OS2Warp 30 points 2 days ago

Right‽

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spirinolas 11 points 2 days ago

No, no, no. They just take the money! It's the customers responsibility to pay the servants. Don't you guys know capitalism?? /s

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ohulancutash 119 points 2 days ago

Should we pay an actual wage?

NO! ITS EVERYONE ELSE WHO ARE WRONG!

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darkmogool 108 points 2 days ago

Fuck american tipping culture… Pay your staff fair…

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robomuffin79 92 points 2 days ago

America once again showing the world what a dystopian shit show it is. People are travelling to what they think is a developed country and so rightly assume all workers are paid a decent wage. Certainly European visitors would assume that. Highlights once again the need for a minimum wage and union support for workers.

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MnemonicBump 23 points 2 days ago

Why would they assume that? America is famously a shitty country for workers. You'd have to know nothing about the country you're visiting to not know that

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Rat_in_a_hat 13 points 2 days ago

Why do North Americans tip when they go to Europe?

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Treczoks 14 points 2 days ago

Because they were too stupid to check the local customs before the trip. And it shows, not only with the tipping, but with a lot of problems they cause.

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Rat_in_a_hat 4 points 2 days ago

So its safe to say that they assumed...which is what MnemonicBump is vilifying the whole world for doing in the US.

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SuperNovaStar 9 points 2 days ago

Because we're an uneducated shithole, obviously 😝

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ohulancutash 2 points 2 days ago

Why would you assume they know about employment norms?

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MnemonicBump 0 points 2 days ago

Because it's normal to learn some things about the country that you're visiting before you go, and it's not a exactly a secret that the U.S. isn't doing well right now

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ohulancutash 2 points 2 days ago

Is it normal to look up employment conditions? I don’t think it is.

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Honytawk 3 points 13 hours ago

Who still believes the US is a developed nation anymore?

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Taleya 90 points a day ago

#PAY YOUR FUCKING STAFF

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Atomic 87 points 2 days ago

Fighting back against what? Pay your employees.

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kurmudgeon 87 points 2 days ago

How is adding a required 20% gratuity to a bill at a restaurant not false advertising? The restaurant advertises the food costs X dollars, then you get your bill and it's now 20% higher?

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ADTJ 27 points 2 days ago

Exactly, it's not only deceptive but also ignoring the fact that many visitors are likely not earning on par with people in New York and are making decisions about where to eat based on the advertised prices.

All these bars and restaurants talking about how busy they've been and have massively increased business during the world cup. They're aware of the tipping problem yet still somehow can't find the cash to cover the difference so that their staff get a normal wage.

They could share some of their revenue windfall with the wait staff. But instead they complain to news outlets and add an automatic 20% markup without prior notice to extract even more money from the visitors.

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otp 6 points 2 days ago

And it's already higher from the tax! Lol

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partofthevoice -6 points 2 days ago
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mcv 32 points 2 days ago

But they only want to buy the food, not the gratitude.

From the perspective of the rest of the world, the US is really weird about prices.

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OS2Warp 5 points 2 days ago

Agreed; in Europe the price on the shelf is what you pay at the register. In the US, sales tax still hasn’t been added in to the price displayed on the shelf so it’s anyone’s guess what the actual price is.

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0x0 4 points 2 days ago

And dont forget to tip your walmart cashier 20%!

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Jimbel 84 points 2 days ago

Pay wages wtf. Usa sucks so hard

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Jason 82 points a day ago

Oh what ever shall we do? The cash registers are bursting with cash due to the influx of visitors... but they're not tipping the servers.

I see absolutely no way that employers could make the situation fairer for servers, even if it were only for the duration of the event.

Gosh, if only there were some way!

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luciferofastora 6 points a day ago

Doing it for the event would set a precedent. Next you know, they'll expect that to continue when it's over. How am I going to make them bend over backwards for customers and bear all kinds of abuse with an apologetic deference just so they don't risk their income? People might stop coming in to hurl insults at my employees while giving me money for the opportunity.

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Treczoks 77 points 2 days ago

Protecting the waiters and barkeepers from what? If they just had normal minimum wage rules, and service was included in the price, they would not need "protection" from a self-inflicted problem.

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jj4211 20 points 2 days ago

Note that if a worker fails to get to minimum wage through tips, they are owed minimum wage by the employer.

However, minimum wage is pretty crap.

Your point stands that compensation should be baked in of course, it is just that normal minimum wage does kick in if the tips fail.

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jrs100000 -1 points 2 days ago

And tips are normally reported as a percentage of gross sales. Technically you can report less, but thats a good way to get catch a tax audit, and if the total tips reported from the restaurant fall too low the whole place will be audited. If your actual tips are short for the day the standard practice is to report the normal percentage and eat the loss.

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jmill 10 points 2 days ago

No, that is not normal practice. If you do that, you aren't just eating the loss of what your employer should have paid you, you would be paying taxes on money you didn't make.

I had a manager at a bar try to feed me that line after a very slow shift and I refused. Anyone pushing that as standard practice either has been direly mislead, or is screwing you over for the company's profit.

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techt 3 points 2 days ago

Wow, for real? This is a good argument in support of abolishing tipped wages. Is there anything you can point to for that being standard practice so my source isn't just an internet person? It's clearly not going to be written down anywhere, so I'm looking for an article or written testimony and not finding anything

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16mhz 69 points 2 days ago

Supporters say the move is intended to protect American servers

Protecting the servers from the customers!!This is a joke, right? If you really wanted to protect American servers you pay them respectable wages.

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core 4 points a day ago

Its protecting the restaurants from having to pay their staff.

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redlemace 68 points 2 days ago

Tipping does not lead to better service. Arguably worse, They want you out asap to get the next tipper in the seat.

Also, can't see why someone should pay a waiter more for bringing 5 steaks an 5 champagnes instead of 5 burgers and 5 soda's. Kind of the same job and effort.

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Couldbealeotard 19 points 2 days ago

I remember when I spent time in the US, tipping was the absolute worst part of the experience.

If I was with a big group going to a restaurant we would have a server constantly checking in with us, chatting and telling stories, getting us deals and freebies. When I would go out alone I would get ignored. If I dressed down I would be treated worse than if I was dressed up. One time I even waited an hour for a table before walking out as larger groups got seated ahead of me. How people are treated is based on how much money they think you'll hand over.

Everything about tipping is greed and it's gross.

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JimmyMcGill 13 points 2 days ago

And then there’s also the fact that people that work less busy times or times where the people visiting the restaurant are less wealthy earn less per hour than their counter parts

Or how men or people of colour also earn less in tips.

Or how many times they aren’t even shared with back of the house staff.

It’s just a stupid system overall

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RIotingPacifist -38 points 2 days ago

Tipping does not lead to better service.

Spoken like someone who's never experienced a French waiter.

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SunnyVikky 20 points 2 days ago

French waiters are honest, which I prefer.

Some of the best service I received was in Hong Kong, it was efficient and moderately rude

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RIotingPacifist -4 points 2 days ago

Maybe better is not the right term but tipping definitely results in politer and usually faster service, there is no point in pretending it doesn't have an impact.

And I'm against tipping culture, I'm just not in denial that it has an impact.

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BussyCat 20 points 2 days ago

Best service I received was in Japan without tipping

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redlemace 15 points 2 days ago

if I remember well, in Japan tipping is easily seen as an insult

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radiofreebc 11 points 2 days ago
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ywain 15 points 2 days ago

You people are so obsessed with attention and false happiness. The server doesn't care about you they have to beg and grind to get to minimum wage. It's one step above indentured servitude.

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SuperNovaStar 1 point 2 days ago

As a server: I literally do care though. I love my regulars and it makes my day when they come in.

I'd still care just as much if I got paid a living wage, but like, don't say we don't care when many of us absolutely do.

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RIotingPacifist -5 points 2 days ago

Lol, you don't know shit about me.

I definitely think we should pay a living wage to everyone and I'm working to pass that in my city & county, but that's doesn't mean I'm in denial about the faux friendliness that results from tipping culture or that the staff are more attentive (it's much less common for staff to ask if you want more drinks without you having to get their attention in countries without tips than those with)

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Damage 13 points 2 days ago

In the US I hated how the waiters were always bothering me with fake smiles "everything ok sir? do you need something?" while I've got my mouth full of food and no interest in conversation. I'll call if I need something, thank you.

I like living in a society of peers, I don't need to feel "served".

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ywain 7 points 2 days ago

You're showing your usian bias, of course its less likely that a server elsewhere in the world is going to interrupt your meal. That doesn't mean they won't be available when you need them. The rest of the world doesn't expect or what someone interrupting their experience every 5 minutes, but we know we can signal them when we need something.

It sounds like you want to improve the working day for your own people, but you need to recognise that what you are aiming for is already well below the standard.

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BassTurd 4 points 2 days ago

Do you tip before you get your meal? If not then they are just working to get you through faster, because a standard 15% every 30 min is better than hoping for 20% for a longer customer.

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SuperNovaStar 2 points 2 days ago

There are plenty of ways to get faster table turn that don't involve rushing your customers, like making sure the food is prepared quickly and accurately, or taking payment earlier so that customers can leave whenever they would like.

Obviously, yes, more tips makes more money than less-but-slightly higher tips, but a good server will manage to achieve both high quality and efficient service.

But yeah, everyone needs to make a livable wage, and tipping culture only helps the owning class.

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DarrinBrunner 64 points 2 days ago

No one should tip anyone. Tipping supports wage theft. If no one tipped, business models that depend on tipping would find no one to hire, so they'd be forced out of business, or need to start paying something closer to a living wage. Yes, this would happen on the backs of those currently working such jobs, but if nothing ever changes, then nothing ever changes.

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elucubra 25 points 2 days ago

I owned a small resto/bar in Spain. My employee's minimum wage was dictated by a sectorial collective bargaining agreement. I had to pay them at least that amount, altough I could pay more for especially good/experienced workers. The base salary was almost 3 times minimum wage. On top of that I paid almost 50% of their salary to the social security system, which covers retirement and health system contributions ( the country has full universal care). Tips are customary, but in the 5 to 10% range, but never required. No server would dream of making an issue for not getting a tip. tips are a thank you, not an obligation.

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Gonzako 1 point 20 hours ago

No sobrevivió el covid?

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elucubra 3 points 20 hours ago

Yes, I did, I was just rolling out delivery, and weather Covid quite well, but I realized I wasn't cut out for that type of business. I was fun for a while, made good money, but it became a rut. I'm a serial entrepreneur (ADHD), so I keep jumping.

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ramjambamalam 8 points a day ago
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ripcord 4 points a day ago

This is not any programming language that I recognize and I am outraged

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cockmushroom 2 points a day ago

It's faketran

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RichardNixos 4 points a day ago

fauxtran was right there

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ArcaneSlime -4 points a day ago

You think that, but then they always have a revolving door of people in a bad enough position, young and kicked out by their family, newly divorced, any number of reasons they're desperate enough to seek a quick hire and fast cash. Most have a criminal record hindering better employment, the restaurants don't drug test but even grocery stores do, if you smoke weed in an illegal state fuck yourself, if you have a real drug problem in any state fuck yourself again.

And call me when you find a way to bring everyone in this country together on ANY issue. Good fucking luck lmao.

The only way to actually change it would require all those customers to actually make a sacrifice themselves and stop going to the restaurant at all. This would still fuck the workers, but it would be the only thing that also affects the owners. Of course most people refuse to learn how to make their own burgers and chickey strips, so that'll never happen either..

But at least I'm not deluding myself into thinking I'm hurting the workers for their own good. Why don't you just bend the server over your knee and spank her for being a bad girl? I'm sure (just like not tipping) it hurts you more than it hurts them, poor baby, you shouldn't have to discipline your servers like that, when will they learn??

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Jason 3 points 16 hours ago

I mean, rather than a spanking, maybe you could just make a law to make employers pay a livable wage?

If they can't because they would go out of business, then they should go out of business.

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ArcaneSlime 0 points 15 hours ago

We agree.

But as it stands, the servers do rely on tips.

And the only person you're hurting by not tipping in the current system is that specific server.

No you're not "helping them actually" by hurting them. That is what abusers say. You are siding with the exploitative business and telling them "it's ok that you operate this way."

Either boycott all tip reliant businesses, or tip while you're already crossing the proverbial picket line. It's that easy.

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Jason 1 point 14 hours ago

The "abuser" in this situation is the employer that doesn't pay enough so that their employees can pay rent and then shrugging it off as if there is nothing that can be done. As if there is a law stopping them from paying a fair wage.

They know that the server will stay on a less than livable wage because otherwise they'll fire them and find someone else who is desperate. This is predatory behaviour.

By not tipping I am not "siding with the exploitative business". Continuing to perpetuate this "culture of tipping" is, however.

I DO already boycott all businesses that make servers rely on tips for a livable wage. I do also tip servers for good service, but it is in addition to their wage, not to make up what the employer refuses to pay.

It really is that easy.

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Garbagio -9 points 2 days ago

That's a very myopic view of things. Let's talk about child labor, for one. Child labor is wrong. But no family, let alone families, went "You know what, this is wrong. We're not sending Timmy to the mines, no matter how many of us starve from the loss of extra income." Your solution is that: That people should bypass unionizing, bypass striking, bypass political engagement, and should just jump straight into starving instead of working these jobs.

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mabeledo 5 points a day ago

What the fuck kind of analogy is that.

Children died in the mines by the hundreds. Those who got out had their lifespans slashed by decades because of the harmful stuff they inhaled on a daily basis. And your argument is that there wasn’t anything better than that?

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Garbagio -3 points a day ago

Dipshit, my argument was that there is a better world than that, and we found it by collectively empowering people, not starving an already disenfranchised group under the boot of capitalism. If you think a bunch of servers not making rent is going to magically bring about a utopia, be my guest, just, Jesus. I hoped better of you, I guess.

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mabeledo 3 points 20 hours ago

That never happened. There was never a time when worker rights were won at no cost for workers themselves.

Families were against child labor laws because they would be losing important streams of revenue. As a result, it took several decades to finally regulate the practice. In the meantime, children were exploited and died, wages were kept low because supply of children workers was always high, and mining and industrial companies thrived up to the peak of the gilded age and the subsequent Great Depression.

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bluefootedbooby 4 points a day ago

I mean, may be a hot take, but I don't think people who usually send kids to work are such great parents. They maybe "have to", because they can't stop fucking and have like 15 kids, so of course Timmy needs to go to the mine, or else they couldn't feed all of them

And people being selfish like that also translates to the server problem - if any underpaid server inherited a restaurant inherited a restaurant, do you think they would go "I'm gonna be different. I'm gonna pay my staff a fair wage, and allow them to have a union"? Lol, of course not. Probably all of them would think "I had to work for 2$/hour, now it's your turn. I fucking to mine". So yes, I do believe starving is the right solution, because I do not believe many of them care about a systemic change.

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Garbagio -2 points a day ago

Buddy, all people can be selfish. That same argument applies to very industry under capitalism. And you think everyone starving is going to lead to some collective uprising? I'd love for you to read a history book; sure, starving people are truly the most altruistic.

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bluefootedbooby 2 points 18 hours ago

All big revolutions ever were born from suffering

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cockmushroom 1 point a day ago

Username checks out

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TheAlbacor -11 points a day ago

Accelerating your fellow workers deeper into poverty isn't the way.

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bluefootedbooby 10 points a day ago

But paying your fellow workers wages, because their boss wouldn't is?

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TheAlbacor 1 point 7 hours ago

You say that like the prices wouldn't just increase by 15 to 20% if tipping wages became illegal.

Because that's what they're doing.

All you're doing if you refuse to tip is taking money out of a fellow working class person's pocket.

https://epionline.org/...

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bluefootedbooby 1 point 6 hours ago
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cockmushroom 1 point a day ago

But subsidizing their abusive employer is, right?

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TheAlbacor 1 point 6 hours ago

Wage theft is the largest type of crime in the US. A huge amount of employers are abusive, not all of them have workers at tipping wages.

Maybe instead of taking money out of another working-class person's pocket, we need to actually have some class solidarity.

If you don't want a tip, don't eat there. But eating in a place like that and refusing to tip is just hurting other working people.

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BillCheddar 0 points a day ago

You've wandered into the only group of liberals that doesn't have any functional empathy.

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TheAlbacor 2 points 7 hours ago

These people think the prices would just stay the same if tipping wages were banned and it's absurd.

No class solidarity at all.

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Gates9 61 points a day ago

Welcome to America, where we subsidize poverty level wages by adding 20-30% to your bill!

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BeardededSquidward 13 points a day ago

Privatizing the profits, socializing the risk.

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Tiral 12 points a day ago

Yeah, call me a dick but I don't tip off percents. I refuse to give the server more just because the price of my food. I'm more likely to give a server who's actually working their ass of at an Applebees or random diner a bigger tip overall than an overpriced place.

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Gates9 3 points a day ago

I do but it often deters me from eating out

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Skylordd78 0 points a day ago

No literally, I don't think I've ever tipped based off percent before

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BillCheddar -8 points a day ago

OK, you're a dick.

I mean, you either go with society's convention and tip a % like everyone else, or you're a dick. You chose poorly.

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Rugnjr 5 points 21 hours ago

Lol what? Their system makes more sense

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Gates9 1 point 12 hours ago

I wouldn’t insult anyone over it. I’ve been around and I got opinions about all sorts of things people might think I’m a dick for, but I generally agree with you. “When in Rome, do as the Romans do”, which is why when I go to Rome I like to sexually harass at least one woman on the street. (A day)

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redwattlebird 59 points a day ago

I visited the US 3 years ago and tipping was a bloody pain in the bum. It added probably 20min to our meal as the waiters took a while to get change. Further, asking every 15 minutes how our meal was going was quite exhausting; mainly because we knew it was performative for more tips. We tipped 20% each time but it's really, really frustrating not knowing the price up front.

Back home, I'm used to paying up front and then leaving as soon as we're done. Waiters leave you alone, unless you're a regular, and ask you how the meal was at the till if you pay after.

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Pyr_Pressure -1 points a day ago

To be honest I hate tipping but I find that to be the positive thing about tipping.

The thing is, if you know you will be tipping 20% everytime then you do know the price upfront. It's 20% higher than the menu price.

Then, if you get horrible service you can choose to give yourself a 20% discount by not tipping rather than fighting with management to give a discount.

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tigermountain -14 points a day ago

I don't want my waiter to leave me alone. I want them to be attentive to my every need. A good waiter knows how to appear just when they're needed.

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mursejoy 6 points 21 hours ago

You’re living in a fantasy land. Nobody appears when they’re needed, you just happened to look up when they had a moment free.

You act like a guy bringing you fish and chips is some genie in a bottle popping out when you need a top off on your Diet Coke. Give me a break lmao.

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tigermountain 1 point 13 hours ago

I see you've never been to a nice restaurant.

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majster 4 points 15 hours ago

I'm from Europe and I apprecaite a good waiter since majority of them really aren't very good. I haven't been to US but if its true that this "good service" means being interrupted for soda refills then that for sure does not mean good service.

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moakley 2 points 15 hours ago

Right? The service in Europe is fine as long as you never need anything.

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Candice_the_elephant 59 points a day ago

It's not "culture" it's unfettered capitalism. Make your staff beg your customers for their wage instead of paying it yourself, great for bosses.

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JackbyDev 56 points 2 days ago

Just auto include a 20% tip in every purchase, include that in the price, and don't leave an option for tips. Done. Problem solved.

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Greyghoster 31 points 2 days ago

In that case just put that price on the menu like they do in other places. Including taxes in the price would help with the confusion too.

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0x0 5 points 2 days ago

Include it as "tip tax" and watch repubes twist themselves inside out over it

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nomy -1 points 2 days ago

The best part of about a "tip tax" is that it would be completely optional. If you don't want to pay it, simply eat at home or make some other arrangements.

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Bubbaonthebeach 16 points 2 days ago

Which could be accomplished by simply raising prices by that amount and then paying the staff appropriately and not have this end run around complicating mess.

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JackbyDev 1 point 2 days ago

Yeah, that's what rising the prices and giving the staff the money is.

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NewNewAugustEast -6 points 2 days ago

The staff would hate that. None of them want it. 20% is far more than what they would be paid even under "a living wage". They know it, the restaurant knows it.

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NihilsineNefas 6 points 2 days ago

Sounds like you don't understand what a livable wage actually means.

Or that you're a manager yourself and never had to live off an unlivable wage.

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NewNewAugustEast -6 points 2 days ago

Sounds like you have never worked for tips.

Its really fucking weird getting down voted and then insulted when chances are you have never had this conversation or worked with people in this industry.

Many restaurants have tried this. The staff do not want it: it always pays much less, and keeps them from being able to pull better nights than others.

Yes outside of america it works, but once you get a taste of that income with tipping, you dont want less.

I'll even back this up:

“The survey data is crystal clear: Tipped employees overwhelmingly prefer the current tip credit payment system, and they don’t want it to change,” Corder said in a statement provided to Restaurant Business. “It’s rare to find an issue that commands such widespread support across diverse age, race, gender and geographic groups.”

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123 6 points 2 days ago

Sounds like a problem for someone that specializes in managing a restaurant.

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Honytawk 1 point 13 hours ago

If none of them want it, they shouldn't complain when someone doesn't pay any tips.

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NewNewAugustEast 11 points 2 days ago

I despise 20%. I tolerated 10, maybe 15, but when it became 20 as the baseline with 30 now looming on the horizen, I am about to just say get bent.

The prices have gone up, so the tips have gone up. Why did they make the leap to 20%? Basically its like adding another person to the table.

Now I know people will say they should be paid a living wage, but from every server I know they absolutely do not want that. They want the tips, it pays better.

I don't know what the solution is. The people who make real money make far beyond that, and there is no doubt the cost of living is through the roof. I cant fault someone for wanting to get a little more, but I am just not going to keep shelling out 20% more on top of dinner that already is 2 people for $150 before tip.

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rethnor 7 points 2 days ago

The only person I to 30% is my hair stylist, and that's because she hasn't raised my price in almost 20 years.

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Boiglenoight 1 point 2 days ago

I plaid 20 during COVID to show gratitude for places being open and practicing good protocols. Now I’m back to 15 unless service is extraordinary.

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ranzispa 1 point a day ago

Does this lead to the situation in which waiters in an expensive restaurant earn significantly more than ones working in cheaper ones?

Do waiters try to get jobs in more expensive places to earn more from tips?

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cockmushroom 4 points a day ago

Yes, and yes.

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JackbyDev -8 points 2 days ago

It has been 20 for like 20 years. Anything else is foolish. Any argument for 30 that involves "inflation" is stupid and doesn't understand how percents work. Like 20 or not, that's the norm. If you don't like paying it then either don't go out or go places that are cheaper so it's less.

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titanicx 0 points a day ago

Naw fuck that. They get tipped what they earned. If it's 5$. If it's 30$. It in the rare case, 0. You don't deserve a tip unless you provide the service to go with it. If I see you once or twice, and I have dirty dishes and have to call over another wait staff to refill drinks. Get fucked.

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JackbyDev 2 points a day ago

How often are you giving nothing?

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SpaceCowboy 8 points 2 days ago

These kind of sane solutions to problems don't belong on the internet. We come here to be irrationally angry over everything.

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grepe 2 points 2 days ago

this

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mlg 48 points 2 days ago

Didn't know this was a hot take but America hasn't provided tip worthy service for decades.

I would even wager that Gen Z and A would be blown away to see the level of service quality something like the boomer generation experienced.

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Alcoholicorn 50 points 2 days ago

A tip in America hasn't been a "bonus for good service" in decades; its the server's wage.

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nullspace 11 points 2 days ago

They ain't even pocketing the cash either. Most transactions are on card these days.

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OS2Warp 9 points 2 days ago

Which is why they had to get “no tax on tips” passed because can’t underreport tips like they used to when it was all cash.

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captainlezbian 1 point 12 hours ago

Yeah, most Americans just have a personal tip amount

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projektilski 42 points 2 days ago

They should try to change this terrible custom

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AI_toothbrush 41 points 2 days ago

Oh right cause they come from civilized countries where people actually get payed. I get both sides but the system is the enemy, not the people.

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FatVegan 1 point 2 days ago

People over here do tip, according ti tge service...

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bampop 5 points 2 days ago

It varies though. Here in northern Italy tipping is rare to the point where it's kind of a social blunder. Many restaurants take a pride in excellence, both in food and service. In any given place, what they offer is what they offer. Trying to pay extra for that might come off as crass and unnecessary, rather than a welcome gesture.

Apart from being simpler, this is more respectful to waiting staff as a profession. How they do their jobs and what they get paid is between them and their employer, they aren't obliged to kiss your ass in the hope that you throw them a few extra euros. It's a different power dynamic where customers and staff are interacting as social equals.

Also it's not uncommon that the person serving you is actually the restaurant owner, or a family member.

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SunshineJogger 40 points 21 hours ago

Yea, because tipping is intended to be optional.

The mere fact of trying to pressure or force the tipping will make sure I regard the service as not tip worthy.

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betanumerus 39 points 14 hours ago

"European restaurants pay staff like any other profession and workers don’t rely on tips, so customers assume they’ve already paid for service".

Europeans are right on this one. The more years go by, the more I find tipping to be ridiculous. Tell me upfront what you expect, then I'll choose where to eat. Managers must adapt to customers, not us do their minimum wage employment practice.

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MoonRaven 37 points a day ago

Imagine the price being.. You know.. The price...

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fritobugger2017 34 points a day ago

Fck the NY Post! It is a tRumpian rag not worthy of fishwrap.

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Thrife 34 points 15 hours ago

Greetings from Europe, we're not baffled. We just don't play your game. Start paying your workers properly.

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Tarambor 33 points 15 hours ago

We come from nations where staff get paid at least the minimum wage and don't rely on tips to make it up to that.

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W3dd1e 32 points 2 days ago

The cash registers are ringing, the beer is flowing and the tables are full.

I live in KC. The restaurants are not full. I’ve seen article after article about how lodging reservations were low before the tournament and now that it’s started, no one is filling restaurants.

https://www.kansascity.com/...

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melsaskca 32 points 2 days ago

I think that most folk from outside america have a better wage structure than the old usa and tipping culture isn't a thing with them. I could be wrong though...greed and "business" transcend borders.

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SpongyAneurysm 10 points a day ago

You're right about the wages.

We do have a tipping culture in Europe though. It's just different. The details vary by country/region. But waiters earn a living wage here and tips are an optional bonus for very good service/food. They are not alms for the exploited.

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TheVoiceOfRaison 30 points 19 hours ago

Maybe if the US paid a decent minimum wage...

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psx_crab 24 points 2 days ago

As far as tipping, Reynolds understands why some visitors aren’t leaving American-sized gratuities.

“They’ve already spent a lot of money to be here in the first place,” he said. “The tipping, I’m not too fussed about it.”

His advice? Embrace the local customs.

“I think if you do come here, you should just engage in the culture because I think you’ll have a better time.”

In what way tipping makes my stay better? American are so far up their ass they made tipping their culture. If you just include it into the price and then pay the waiter/waitress like human being then there won't be any confusion.

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kobra -3 points 2 days ago

Imagine Americans going to other countries and complaining that they don't get free refills or free water and saying stuff like "if you'd just increase the cost of everything, you could afford to offer free refills and free water"

Like, I agree, tipping culture sucks and I wish it wasn't the norm in America but IT IS and to just go there and pretend like they should change overnight for tourists is such a wild take.

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Spawn7586 10 points 2 days ago

Getting pissed at tourist because you lie and say something is not mandatory when it actually is such a fun hyperbole to read. Especially since they are not there to visit the country. They couldn't care less about culture of the US. They are there to watch football (yah, not soccer) and it just so happens the world cup is there lmao. I hate football and I'm so glad I don't feel the need to go to such a worker exploiting country...

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ArcaneSlime -5 points 2 days ago

The bosses who make their money regardless and exploit the worker say it isn't mandatory, the workers who are actually the ones affected by lack of tips say it is mandatory, wanna guess why the discrepancy exists? Because the boss makes their money regardless and you only harm the poor worker by not tipping, that's why. The workers couldn't care less about your dumb fucking game, pay me or don't come in, fuck my boss, and fuck your reasoning for being in the country, you are so act accordingly.

(The royal you, I read your comment lol)

And "soccer" was originally British slang for "association football," gridiron football outpaced it in popularity and won the title "football" over association or rugby football. Big ol' "who cares" on that one.

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omigibson 5 points 2 days ago

Of course the water is free. And in many places you can get a free refill of coffee (Sweden).

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cockmushroom 22 points a day ago

I'll never understand why the "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" people see it as everybody else's responsibility to cushion the inumerable blows from their abusive relationships with their employers.

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Muscle_Meteor 22 points 2 days ago

What the fuck is signing a reciept?

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Jimb 8 points 2 days ago

In the US we sign for most transactions that can have a tip.

Typical restaurant flow would be:

  1. Server gives you an initial receipt with your subtotal on it so you know how much you owe
  2. You give them your card, they charge it the initial amount and give you a second receipt
  3. You write in a tip amount (and calculate the new total) on this second receipt and sign it

Our credit card companies don’t require signatures anymore so we don’t have to do this nonsense when we buy anywhere that doesn’t take tips (grocery store, department store, etc.); I assume restaurants just want some sort of “proof” in case you try and dispute the charge later.

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ranzispa 6 points a day ago

Wouldn't it be simpler to just directly charge the amount with the tip after asking the customer how much they want to tip?

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darklamer 6 points a day ago

I have an even more radical simplification: Just list the actual amount of money that the customer is expected to pay directly on the menu and then that same amount of money once again on the bill, just like the entire rest of the world does it!

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ranzispa 1 point a day ago

I agree, however I was not suggesting a better solution; i was asking why it is not done that way.

Do you know why and can explain or do you just enjoy derailing conversations?

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Feathercrown 1 point a day ago

Yes, and it was a source of great confusion for me. Just let me write the tip on the first bill.

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SCmSTR 2 points a day ago

If the receipt is contested, your bank may investigate. If the bank investigates, they may bring you the receipt and ask you "is this your signature?"

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tirateimas 19 points 2 days ago

That US tipping culture doesn't make any sense. Tipping should be optional when customers think they got wonderful service. In other words, it is up to the customer to decide and not part of the "menu", neither should it be an expected component of the employment package, it should be a bonus not given by the employer.

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i_am_not_a_robot 9 points 2 days ago

What really doesn't make sense from a customer perspective is that recently everywhere you go somebody is asking for a tip, but you're only expected to tip:

  • Taxis but not busses or trains.
  • Restaurants but not fast food restaurants, and sometimes restaurants add a service fee that may or may not include the expected tip, especially if you are with a large group. Typically, you are expected to tip if you are assigned a seat, somebody takes your order while you are seated and brings your food to you, and you pay after you eat.
  • Food delivery but not any other kind of delivery.

Examples of inappropriate places where a tip is sometimes requested but not expected:

  • When placing an online order from a warehouse.
  • When placing an order at a fast food restaurant.
  • When buying something that you picked up off a shelf yourself and carried to the checkout.
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SuperNovaStar 3 points 2 days ago

It makes lots of sense when you realize that it makes more money for the owning class, so they like it a lot.

Also it got started right after slavery ended, so you can imagine who was getting told "sorry you didn't make any money today, better luck tomorrow."

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Reumacosimo 19 points 2 days ago

Tip is a con

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jmsy 16 points 2 days ago

this didn't start with world cup tourists. It was happening years before the world cup. restaurants are claiming this to normalize the practice.

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treehugger6 15 points 2 days ago

Lol

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bridgeburner 14 points a day ago

Are drinks and food at least cheap in restaurants in the US? Cos then the high tips could at least be a tiny amount justified.

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brown567 20 points a day ago

HA! no

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Einskjaldi 3 points a day ago

There are cheap places everywhere but places for drinking and watching sports usually aren't.

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MML 6 points a day ago

Usually no, fortunately I have this local Italian place that's like $14 a meal including tip, literally everything is under $15, I don't know if they work for the mob or not but I'm not turning them in if they do. $8 for sub, fries, and drink. Probably would have been $2 cheaper to go to subway and not tip, plus it's so much better than subway.

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lechekaflan 13 points 15 hours ago

lmao NY Post getting pissy over what they call barbarians not leaving tips.

Ignoring the reality the unwritten rule of tipping for exceptional service was taken over by the restaurants and turned the gesture into a formality serving the owners, and the waiters now get gypped below minimum wage.

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RedGreenBlue 12 points 2 days ago

I guess the tourist never really cares about the local custom or the local worker. It's up to the locals to fix their labour laws.

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CanIFishHere 11 points 15 hours ago

There is a no tipping culture in Europe.

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adespoton 9 points 2 days ago

Maybe this is the event that can spark change. If people aren’t tipping, so servers quit their jobs to go work somewhere with better base pay, owners will be left taking the hit.

I’m sure they’ll find some way to make the workers suffer instead, but this could be what’s needed to get rid of corporate “tip culture”.

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SuperNovaStar 3 points 2 days ago

Unless you have a degree or work a skilled trade, it's pretty hard to find a job that out-earns serving. Most places, good servers and bartenders are actually making enough to live on (after tips), which you'd only get in retail if you're management. (Sometimes not even then!)

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ArcaneSlime -1 points 2 days ago

Former food service worker here:

You have to break into the unskilled office/warehouse sector, but to do that you almost have to know someone there already.

Or (if you're lucky enough to be able to, most aren't as they keep you purposefully locked in), restaurant your way through trade school and pick one up. Now you have a new set of problems (you're locked into "helper" and nobody wants to teach you enough to compete with them, pretend you don't want your license), but you're paid better to have those problems, and imo they're easier to work around than selfish prick customers that want to hurt your boss by giving him money but "help" you by telling you to fuck yourself.

Still hard, but "retail" ain't it, those are your only options.

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ArcaneSlime -2 points 2 days ago

That isn't how it works, the worker quits and the owner hires another person who needs a job bad enough they're applying there. There's a revolving door because it's easy to get hired, there's no drug tests or background checks or min experience (they say there is but it's a lie, they'll hire children), all the people applying need that job now because they need to pay rent (and most in the industry are addicted to something which helps them be exploitable), or they can't get hired anywhere else because of a criminal record, etc.

Revolving door goes brrrr and the workers either cycle to a "better" restaurant in the same system or finally break free and learn a trade or something, but the system continues exploiting the next individual and always will as long as you are willing to support the exploitation by patronizing the establishments that work this way. The only way to end it is if you the customer stop giving the business itself your money instead patronizing restaurants that pay fair, the business doesn't care if Susan gets tipped, they got their money for your steak, Susan is the only one who cares about wasting time serving you for free when she needs to make rent to avoid homelessness.

Trust me, I was so close to homeless working in a restaurant job, stuck in an abusive relationship because they paid their half of the rent and without that I couldn't afford to live anywhere, they ended up leaving before I got out and I was down to the absolute wire but I got a better job and pulled it through, borrowed a few bucks from some friends but made it. The restaurant didn't change because I left, they just got a new "me." Probably been through 5 of them by now and there's more lined up to take the 6th+ place.

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solidheron 7 points a day ago

I know what we have to do is hard but we can involve but punching your boss in the dick

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melfie 7 points 15 hours ago

“Tipflation” is the worst part. It’s annoying as hell when staff tell you the terminal or kiosk is going to “ask you a question” and the fucking thing asks for a tip while they’re staring right at you. It’s gaslighting people into questioning whether to tip for something that typically wouldn’t require a tip, and whether you should tip to avoid having your food spat on, etc. Then the suggested tip percentages are often inflated and if you want to tip lower, you have to fumble around with the “other” button while they continue to stare. I’d say vote with your wallet, but every place does this now.

I’ve lived here all my life, and I’m not always sure when I’m supposed to tip or not, so not sure how anyone visiting from a country with a more rational system is expected to understand our broken system here.

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bitjunkie 5 points 14 hours ago

The way to vote with your wallet on this is to not go to the restaurant, not to still go and then be an asshole to the underpaid staff. Not leaving a tip doesn't hurt the exploitative restaurateur or the system you "disagree with" but are still willfully participating in as far as it suits you. Also, fuck the Post.

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huey_m 5 points 15 hours ago

Way too many people in here speaking for "Europe". I live in Europe as well, and here tipping at a restaurant or a delivery driver is 100% expected. It isn't usually as much as the US, but tipping exists here as well.

Also, when in Rome... plenty of people here get upset at Americans for not following cultural norms, seems fair to get upset at people visiting America for not doing the same.

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phoenixz 5 points 8 hours ago

fighting back doubling down on near slavery conditions when confronted with their bullshit

FTFY

Fuck everything about tipping, tipping must be prohibited by law

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Ixoid 5 points 2 days ago

Reason #37 why I will never visit this shithole country.

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Godric 4 points a day ago

Pepe Sylvia??? Charlie, that says Pennsylvania!

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dropdrip 4 points 15 hours ago

What's a world cup? America failing; land of poverty and circuses.

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Impractical_Island 1 point a day ago

Can you eveb get a sollar outage of the sun so why you nakeing these people pay for the frotrage. Minnesota? No I don't do that

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bitwolf 1 point 8 hours ago

Everyone who gives their life to a job deserves a living wage.

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plutopos 0 points 9 hours ago

I imagine many people don't know about tipping culture. But I'd imagine it'd pop up if you look online for American customs. I'd say this one's on the tourists for not researching appropriately

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TommySoda -2 points 2 days ago

Look, I worked in restaurants for half of my adult life and even though the system is fucked for tips it's not like the wait staff has a say in the matter so punishing them by not tipping is completely pointless. That being said, I'm pretty sure 90% of wait staff agree with you about tipping but are unfortunately stuck in the system just like the rest of us. But even when considering all of that it's absolutely insane that people are expected to tip when it costs $100+ just to go out to eat with a few friends.

Basically what I'm saying is that it's generally a more complicated issue than it looks from the outside, but the long story short is that the staff are the ones getting fucked over by everyone else and it doesn't make sense to punish them. It's infinitely more helpful to leave a negative review than it is to not tip the wait staff. If you do that it actually brings attention to the issue and hurts the business instead of just punishing someone for trying to do their job.

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otp 7 points 2 days ago

90% of waitstaff (if not more than that) LOVE tipping culture because they get more money than they'd ever be making hourly by serving without tips.

(Talking about servers in places with tipping culture, of course)

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TommySoda 3 points 2 days ago

Yeah, when business is good. But as soon as it's not the tune changes immediately.

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Auth -5 points a day ago

Never tip in the US. Do not listen to wait staff whining. The only reason they cry about it is because they make far more than they ever would on a stable wage. If you don't pay them they will still receive the wage they agreed to.

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Proprietary_Blend -34 points 2 days ago

Eurotrash won't adjust to or learn about any culture they disagree with.

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TheBloodFarts 6 points 2 days ago

Ameritrash won't adjust or learn about any culture they disagree with.

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Proprietary_Blend -2 points 2 days ago

SLAM!

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otp -2 points 2 days ago

Why the Whataboutism? This is true, built relevant to the post.

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mabeledo 4 points a day ago

Tipping is culture now.

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Proprietary_Blend -45 points a day ago
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TheAlbacor 14 points a day ago

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MrChewy -1 points a day ago

As much of a cunt the guy you're replying to, this is really uncool dude. Are you seriously fine with stooping down to this level of bitterness?

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Magnum 1 point a day ago

I don't get it

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cockmushroom 2 points a day ago

The situation is that proprietary_blend committed suicide

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Proprietary_Blend -2 points a day ago

Ha. Nice.

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postmateDumbass 1 point a day ago

So you work in the service industry in a WC host city you say?

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